Guys I actually have the same problem as Soojung. I date girls and only like girls but I never had the urge to go to the next step. But I’m even worse I don’t even wanna initiate a kiss idk why I’m like this?? I think I’ll need to date for a year before we go to that stage and I still don’t know how to kiss anyone…. I tried to do things with my ex but I was so turned off it was just awkward to do things so I stopped. Is it a deeper issue or I just don’t like my ex?
Have you ever considered the fact you might be asexual? I'm not trying to imply anything but if you had more than few past experiences regarding sexual intimacy I think it's worth checking out...
I agree with the other commenter that you may want to look into asexuality. Either that or you really just need more time to be intimate with people and that totally okay
the other two that responded i also agree w/ and would like to add my 2cents! look into demisexual as well (a term that falls under asexual). though tht gets more specific and maybe youre not interested in hard labels. if you conclude it doesn't stem from something more personal n after some research and self reflection on your sexuality, perhaps asexuality may be what youre looking for!
Pookie, I agree with the replies above, you are absolutely not alone in feeling this way fr. Navigating all of this can lowkey be so confusing, but please know your feelings are completely valid. Take all the time you need to figure things out at your own pace, I really hope it all works out for you in the end, take care ily!
Thank you for all ur replies! I had passing thoughts about being asexual but haven’t really explored it yet. Another reason for my lack of sexual desire maybe sth my friend used to say? In middle school my friend said “I’ll change in the bathroom since __ is here” like she was scared of me looking or lusting after her. So after that I made up my mind to not be “creepy” or act flirty with girls who didn’t flirt first. I’ll try to figure it out tho tyyy
hot MESS lmaooo I’m so amused by that monstrous dih it’s like titan’s bride all over again
The plot twists are so random and out of nowhere. It’s entertaining to read but the plot barely makes any sense. The mc is an immortal dih magnet who also looks 16 all the time. And the ml who’s supposedly caring about mc tries to get close by shoving dih in his mouth? And the evil mf was just trying to manipulate mc into being obsessed with him despite mc already being head over heels? Their powers/mutation weren’t explained properly like why can they switch souls?? The ending wasn’t that satisfying like why is that mf still alive. Also I hate that they switched bodies like I wanted mc to be with someone NOT from his past whom can support him. When it was revealed all I can feel was “okay????????” The dynamic of a revengeful director falling in love with a conman who ruined his life was much more satisfying than someone from his past. That relationship would explain why he was an asshole to mc at the beginning. The plot had potential but the author ruined it by adding too many plot twists. The story would’ve worked better without Rohee or the would switch. Imagine mc going through all that and the director had to learn about his past and resolve their understanding likeeeeee that would’ve been MUCHHH better.
why they be acting annoying af like garam isn’t trying shit for the relationship. and jaehyuk is dumb with this revenge friendship shit.
I’m too similar to sara it makes me uncomfortable while reading. I got together with my recent ex because I didn’t want her to distance herself to move on from me.(she was on of my best friends who used to have a crush on me & I thought I liked her back) So I gave the relationship a try. But she really had a complex about me not “liking” her as much as I liked my exes. I felt like I acted normally and liked her enough but after a while I also doubted myself. Things ended horribly to the point I blocked her and the mention of her name disgusts me
I hate dumb, push over, weak ukes. But inseob has a special place in my heart. After rereading ts I realized the reason i don’t hate inseob is because he’s not dumb as a rock. Every action he does he knows fully what he’s doing as the name “willful negligence”. He doesn’t just gets swept up by the ml without a clue in the world. He knew what he was getting himself into and he lets it happen. I also love obsessive, cocky, arrogant mls who can’t help but fall for mc. One of the best manwhas out there for sure.
Bro I’m salivating thinking about the revenge arc. The seme is gonna get PLAYYEDDD. He’ll be head over heels thinking him and his bf is on good terms until our uke dips lmaooooo. Bro I hope the fucking ml get super pathetic just the way I like it
Although the comments makes a good point that this could’ve been solved with communication but I understand the ml lol. When I as with my ex we argued like every other day so it was super exhausting. I shared some of my concerns with her but it would never get “fixed”. We would also have to argue about another thing she didn’t like about me then she’ll “change” just for her to bring this “change” up in another new argument. She told me to tell her everything but when I actually do we always and up arguing. So eventually I stopped voicing my concerns cuz I didn’t want to argue with her anymore. When I broke up with her n she was trying to win me back she did not know that I was unhappy in the relationship and asked me to tell her what’s wrong. But I HAVE.
I think the ml here thinks he should bottle up his feelings to avoid conflict, it’s dumb but I understand. The avoiding will never work tho, after awhile you’ll hate ur partner like me lololol
Gave him strength to fight back during hardddd times for sure