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Have you ever considered the fact you might be asexual? I'm not trying to imply anything but if you had more than few past experiences regarding sexual intimacy I think it's worth checking out...

I agree with the other commenter that you may want to look into asexuality. Either that or you really just need more time to be intimate with people and that totally okay

the other two that responded i also agree w/ and would like to add my 2cents! look into demisexual as well (a term that falls under asexual). though tht gets more specific and maybe youre not interested in hard labels. if you conclude it doesn't stem from something more personal n after some research and self reflection on your sexuality, perhaps asexuality may be what youre looking for!

Pookie, I agree with the replies above, you are absolutely not alone in feeling this way fr. Navigating all of this can lowkey be so confusing, but please know your feelings are completely valid. Take all the time you need to figure things out at your own pace, I really hope it all works out for you in the end, take care ily!

Thank you for all ur replies! I had passing thoughts about being asexual but haven’t really explored it yet. Another reason for my lack of sexual desire maybe sth my friend used to say? In middle school my friend said “I’ll change in the bathroom since __ is here” like she was scared of me looking or lusting after her. So after that I made up my mind to not be “creepy” or act flirty with girls who didn’t flirt first. I’ll try to figure it out tho tyyy