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I hate swimming, although watching Free! did make swimming look great. I just hate the water, I can swim (not perfectly) and I can get near it but I have bad experiences with pools of water. When I was younger my dad used to throw me in the deep end to "teach" me how to swim. I remember I'd splash around panicky and tired until I couldn't hold my w......   1 reply

First of all, you are VALID. You breathe in air for your own person not anybody else, so you can't be useless to anybody else because you walk and talk for yourself. Family doesn't birth you or raise you to become 'of use' . Your part of a family that welcomes you as an addition to a group of people that have collectively decided to form and stay ......   reply

Its not stupid. And you really shouldn't consider it being that way. Many people have probably had the same or similar self-dilemma as you, at some point in their life. By your words of choice, in the question, I can tell that your unsure of yourself (using "i think" in parentheses, and "it didn't hurt or bleed 'sadly'," but then following that st......   reply

First of all. No. Flat out-NO that's NOT normal. Second, If you have to ask yourself questions like, ' is this normal?' 'Is this ok?' Its probably most likely not. Trust yourself and that gut-feeling. Get Help. And if you don't know how to ask, who to ask, or you simply can't find the courage to seek 'proper' help, then you have to help yourself an......   reply

Welp, I guess I'm still a virgin at 17 is because I've never had that much attraction to sex before or have a person who'd I could actually trust , but still i am not looking for that person or any. I'm ace but if the person I love wants to do it and if I love that person enough, I'd lose it.   reply