people in the comments clearly dont understand the popularity of humiliation in bdsm... i dont like exhibitionism because it is obviously very awkward and uncomfortable for people minding their own business but u guys calling the ml a freak and a weirdo when ur LITERALLY reading a bdsm story is crazy... also they have a safe word so any arguments saying that hes forcing the mc into it r stupid
You’ll be surprised how many minors are actually lurking in these kind of stories and some of them comments how disgusting this kind of play is when this story is not for their age at all. And I was surprised to see in a BDSM bl story that majority of the comment section are minors so yep. I won’t be surprised if the readers here are minors.
Random confession but i used to be a minor consuming adult media so i would know but it really doesn't take much to figure out why certain genres of manhwa or manga are made the way they are, to cater to the niche, it obviously isn't for everyone. I just guessed that some of the comments may or are definitely minors bec it just doesn't seem like what an adult looking into a bdsm manhwa would say ( ̄へ ̄)
I’m pretty sure I’ve encountered a minor here claiming that they are in a BDSM community but claims that public masturbation is sexual assault. I didn’t reply to them any longer ‘cause it was too obvious that they were below legal age and it was too ridiculous that they claim to be in the BDSM community (as minors my gosh)
i think its not wrong to hope for accurate representation in a BDSM story; however it doesnt make you a bad person for enjoying and consuming BDSM media that has misconceptions or is not depictive of a healthy BDSM relationship. it doesnt make the media inherently bad either. you should just be aware that the relationship ISNT healthy nor should you set it as the standard for a normal BDSM relationship. i do hope that the people in the comments realize that public plays are pretty fucking weird however... its not wrong for someone to dislike/show their dislike of public plays when frankly its harmful of varying degrees to the public and its literally illegal. that being said its fiction so again who cares
REAL from the top to the bottom!
I am personally not involved in that community, but I've even heard from a few of them saying that involving others in a play goes agaisnt the ethic code because they are non consenting particiapnts or something like that (implying that something like this - the public display - would be crossing a line)
I started reading stories with healthy BDSM and it shocked me. They talked about sub and Dom trainings, Std tests, hard and soft nos BEFORE they start any session and what not. Comming back to these kind of stories with half assed BDSM depiction is kinda depressing