I want to be a freeloader but too bad I don't have the talent to become one. I don't have the ability and the face to please someone or something like that...*sob*
I went to this phase with my partner. I used to love every little thing about him at that time and as time passed by I slowly felt I was not being heard and when I said something he felt attacked.
There was a big communication gap and every word was like knives that were being thrown at each other and small movements can be interpreted as a rejection.
It was physically and mentally trying. Our relationship became toxic and we hated each other presence. We tried ending it so many times but we felt hostage with each because we knew we were not ready to let go.
Knowing that we can't let go and we can't keep hurting each other. We decided to analyze the root cause of this and then decided to change some things and compromise with one another. I'm glad we did and are happy with each other again. We are now in our 6th year of relationship. (=・ω・=)
Aww, congrats!! Glad that y'all worked it out with each other. (≧∀≦)
It's not nice to be too nice to everyone. I understood this based on how see some people. There was this person who is always jealous because her lover is too nice to everyone and will do things for others. It made her feel guilty because she feels like she's being unreasonable.
I actually thought that it turned to toxic relationship. The girl is not vocal but she became even more silent...she was afraid to be called toxic. The guy seems to be clueless about everything.
I'm not saying that the guy is doing anything wrong...but being too nice to everyone is a problem if you're in a relationship.
Exactly. It's fine to do things for others out of the goodness of your heart, but if you have a partner, share decisions with them and don't leave them out. You have to make them feel that they are your priority and they have to be happy, not the other people, especially being in a relationship.
Also, communication between two sides really is important!!
I like looking at beautiful hands and how can't helped staring at it. It even reached to the point that I started to get attracted someone's hand (a guitarist). My sister was the vocalist where that guitarist was in. Everytime my sister offers me to come to their practice, I happy agree because I want to see that guy's hands playing guitar. That person has a girlfriend though and said to be a very possessive...welp, I only came for the hands and don't even remember his face hahaha
It's so cute and sweet. I can't stop smiling the whole time while reading
Uhm...what do I say...it was weird and fast as lightning...