Wow this has gotten deep. I had to reply to this one thou. As I lived this for ten years. I was in an abusive relationship. And the people who are saying run. They are right. They don't stop, and they don't get better. And this guy is even worst then my ex. Further more most abusers can start out being great guys or girls at the start. So for this guy to have change is not that unusual. It's a act. I was going to go further, but i am having problems with the reply box.
I'm so sorry you went through all that, and for so long even. I'm so glad you got out of that relationship. It's not easy. I wish you better luck - make it really good luck - from now on.(⌒▽⌒)
I personally know victims that I am aware of. One I only found out about when I was no longer going to see her (she's still alive, it's just that she's the mother of an ex-schoolmate of mine from a long time ago an we live far away). After that I tried to look for information on it, and to try to help people. Another is now in the procces of getting away of a really long abusive relationship. So I know somewhat what it can do to people.
I also say run. I just can't understand all the people trying to defend Kan-chan.
I'm so sorry you went through all that, and for so long even.I'm so glad you got out of that relationship. It's not easy. I wish you better luck - make it really good luck - from now on.(⌒▽⌒)I personally... pRAk
Your a awesome person! But don't feel too bad about your friend. They have to want to leave. And most of the time we lie to protect them. She has to do it on her own. Like I did. We had to stop being afraid. All you can do is be there when they finally had enough. By giving them a place to turn too.
Wow this has gotten deep. I had to reply to this one thou. As I lived this for ten years. I was in an abusive relationship.
And the people who are saying run. They are right. They don't stop, and they don't get better. And this guy is even worst then my ex.
Further more most abusers can start out being great guys or girls at the start. So for this guy to have change is not that unusual. It's a act.
I was going to go further, but i am having problems with the reply box.
I'm so sorry you went through all that, and for so long even.
I'm so glad you got out of that relationship. It's not easy. I wish you better luck - make it really good luck - from now on.(⌒▽⌒)
I personally know victims that I am aware of. One I only found out about when I was no longer going to see her (she's still alive, it's just that she's the mother of an ex-schoolmate of mine from a long time ago an we live far away). After that I tried to look for information on it, and to try to help people. Another is now in the procces of getting away of a really long abusive relationship. So I know somewhat what it can do to people.
I also say run.
I just can't understand all the people trying to defend Kan-chan.
Again, All the best for you!
ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~
Your a awesome person! But don't feel too bad about your friend. They have to want to leave. And most of the time we lie to protect them. She has to do it on her own. Like I did. We had to stop being afraid. All you can do is be there when they finally had enough. By giving them a place to turn too.