Lady_Damini's Topics (12)

Umm are you all right?

No deadass why are we tryna make the masses feel suicidal

this question should be asked in capital letters because it's a valid question

Well don't blame me...blame the Authors of the previous MPREG series I read that give these plot over and over again.... Made me traumatized. So I'm overthinking what's gonna happen again

I get it... Could u probably drop those name... For a friend, ofc for a friend

Bruhhhhh whyyyyyyyy noooooo

Shit the fuck up please don't do this

I'm Sorry Y'all.... Ain't my fault I'm overthink things

You’re sick in the head hopefully you’ll never get to reproduce.

Bruh... I'm Asian

Its just part of the discipline...you know, tough love ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

I hope you never get to be a parent you're disgusting to think that if you just treat the wound afterwards it's all good making it look like beating up kids only give them physical trauma, but also mental trauma
Minato is innocent and didn't even get what he did wrong so if anyone that should get a beating is you for not being a good parent and teaching kids beforehand as they why they shouldn't enter the kitchen :)

Hahaha bruh..you guys don't understand how ASIAN parents raise their children in ASIA. Lol

“Uhm like I’m Asian so it’s okay for me to graphically describe how I would abuse a child…” break the cycle instead of promoting it freak

No hun thats not normal, I know so many people who grew up in asia with Asian parents and they were never viciously beat, and the few friends I have that where never wanted to put their own kids through that

Stfu I'm south Asian myself who is in Asia and it's not a flex that you were brought up that way and instead of realising what your parents did wrong you just want other kids to experience stuff like that.
generational trauma and ppl like you who don't grow up and don't break this bad chain have no right to become parents, and with your lil brain which can't even process why should you beat a kid up despite the effects it had on you

I'm Asian too and was raised the Asian way. And you're fucking sick in the head. Being a parent is to not continue generational abuse and trauma. It's to break those chains and patterns to make your children's lives better and easier for them to navigate. Children are to be cherished and loved. Your job as a parent is to nurture and protect them. Saying you'll continue this sick tradition of mentally, physically, and emotionally abusing kids is wrong. You're wrong. I hope you never have kids. You don't deserve to have them.

Exactly you get meeeeeee
Just because I'm Asian and was brought up that way doesn't automatically make it right or "cool" way to bring up your kids
Only raises more ppl with mental issues and no good relationship with parents

Exactly! Just because we were brought up that way doesn't mean we don't evolve with the times, learn from our parents' mistakes, and change for the better. Not only would we make our future children's lives better, we would be less stressed as well.

The amount of unncessary stress our parents put themselves through, just to be driven crazy, was totally self-inflicted.

Yah...okay thanks y'all hahaha I appreciate all your opinions. I'll take that in mind. Hahahah i just wanted to say i don't like spoiled kids... and I'm used to tough love from my parents... and that made me who I am today (except for being a fan of BL btw).. but thanks y'all for wishing I would never have any kids in the future... too young for that.. (づ￣ ³￣)づ

Thisss !!! Coz as an asian myself who always got hit when I do something bad or accidentally hurt myself, it's became a trauma that has impacted me negatively

Sick Individuals

Agree! If you don't discipline your kid when they are young, the law will take care of that for you in future.

Correct.

exactly bruhh.. as an asian myself i would never want my kids to go through the terrible traumatic shit i went through

Same here, grew up in a toxic household that made me also never want to bear kids because of the fear that I might be the same as my mom when she treated me as of today

as an asian, i hated it when my parents "physically disciplined" me and "physically disciplined" me again when i refused to eat dinner bc they didn't even bother apologizing for losing their cool. i hated it then and i hate it even now when i get reminded of it. even if it's "for their own good", how heartless can you be if you can raise your hand on a small child?
and don't give me that "i grew up like that and turned out just fine" bullshit bc a lot of us grew up like that and did NOT turn out okay. when we say "asian parent things", it's meant as a dark joke, not an attempt at normalizing "physical disciplining".
some of my friends grew up without getting hit for making mistakes, crying for long and throwing temper tantrums. i wonder how they didn't "become spoiled brats" and turned out fine. do you know how envious i felt when they told me that their parents never hit them?
stop making excuses for why you weren't able to suppress your anger and frustration and calmly explain "what" the child's mistake was and "why" it was a mistake.
just bc kids "live under your roof and live off your money" (which is the bare minimum a child should expect from their parents bc they were the ones who decided to raise them) doesn't mean that they have to suffer for your lack of patience and tolerance.

this! i struggle with anger management bc of the way i grew up. i see how similar i am with my parents in terms of personality. i don't want to become like them and i can't guarantee that i won't... and that scares me.

I'm in the same boat. I definitely inherited my mom's anger management issues and I lost so much of my childhood to abuse that I am 100% sure that I would end up resenting any children I would have.

The best thing that can happen for me is me not being able to procreate.

Same, but the sad thing that I know they won't be together (╯°□°）╯︵ ┻━┻

Imma just gonna make my self delulu about it hehe