weirdogayhoodlum's Questions (14)

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rose maiden

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mitsumei/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/border/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/border_dj_take_out/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/border_dj_side_story/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/border_dj_peach/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ronald_no_yabou/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ryoshuu_reijin/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ai_no_konseki_yajuu_gunsou_to_aigan_guni/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/doutei_saizensen/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koishiki_kaikyuu/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dokonimo_nai_kuni/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sanzen_sekai_no_karasu_wo_koroshi/

rose maiden!!!! though just to warn you they didn't start off great (⊙…⊙ )

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/pinup_boy/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/himitsu_ni_shiro_yo/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hana_ni_kuchizuke/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/unmei_no_kisu_wa_oazuke/

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yasashii_pantsu_no_nugasekata/ HOT

Unfather?

Kirepapa
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kirepapa/
Anime is there too http://kissanime.ru/Anime/Kirepapa
Also this
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_inheitance_of_aroma/
I think you already heard about Unfather and How Sweet is a Sugar Daddy XD
Also this
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/papa_i_love_you/

i also would like to add i’m 100 % for the equal treatment of the lgbt community

Don't listen to those tumblrs. theyre crazy

If I like shoujo, am I fetishizing normal couples? Or, hell, myself? We like what we like. What's important is respecting REAL people, gay or not, as human beings. As long as people don't "oh god you're gay? do you top? bottom? kyaaa", it's fine.

As long as we separate fiction from reality, I don't think liking yaoi is such a bad thing. People on tumblr get triggered about anything.

Definition of homophobia is "dislike of or prejudice against homosexual people". Do you read yaoi because you hate two men making love together or thing that gay relationship is against nature? Fujoshis = homophobia is bullshit. （￣へ￣）

if you flip it around, would someone who likes reading romance with straight couples be fetishizing straight people? no smh and yeah it's just fiction

I wouldn't call you homophobic, but it's true that by reading yaoi you are fetishizing gay men.

OMG, this argument again. YOU CANNOT FETISHIZE STRAIGHT PEOPLE.

Um, why not?

true

This world is going crazy. You can be criticized for anything nowadays. And of course, the people saying fujoshi are in fact homophobic probably think they themselves are extremely tolerant... (most likely tolerant only with the people who share the same beliefs like them... the rest is just ignorant / homophobic / racist / blablabla). They just need someone to bash you know... because it makes them feel better about themselves. In fact I feel sorry for these people...

It's less the 'liking yaoi' part and more the behavior of most people who call themselves fujoshis. it's not uncommon to see people around here saying shit like wishing they were gay/wishing their future children to be gay so they can '''ship''' them/applying sexual & romantic context to every m/m interaction they see for their own enjoyment/comparing liking yaoi to actually being gay/etc. basically dismissing the struggles of the gay community on top of acting as if gay folks exist for their entertainment. that's what fetishizing is. personally, and as a member of the lgbt community, I don't see consuming bl content as inherently fetishizing, but I see where some more... uh radical folks would get that from, with how yaoi tends to depict gay relationships in far less than accurate ways and with little to no regard for actual representation.
imo, as long as you avoid such unbecoming behavior and keep yourself in check so as not to trespass the line between fiction and reality, you're fine.

I am confused. If reading yaoi is fetishizing gay men, then why is reading shoujo or even straight smut not fetishizing heteros? It seems like a double standard to me. It's just like saying guys that play around are "the man" but women who do the same are considered sluts.

From wiktionary: fetishize=To make the subject of (often sexual) obsession.
Are you obsessed with gay people and you behave like the people above said? Then yes you do fetishize gay men.
If you just like reading it, then you don't.

^^^^this

the concept is applied only to minorities because they are at disadvantage in society, and fetishizing those minorities means perpetuating the stigma that surrounds them with labels such as weird/unnatural/eccentric - labels that the whole notion of fetishes encases. meanwhile, being straight is largely seen as the 'default' - thus, even if someone is somehow obsessed over heterosexuality, they're just going to be considered 'normal'. still, as I've stated in a previous comment, I don't believe merely reading any kind of content can bring any harm to the subject in question, so long as you know where to draw the line.

It isn't the same. You can't fetishize straight people.
Please don't try and telling gay people what does or does not fetishize us.

Ok i can understand that. I guess what "normal" is in the eyes of society. And yeah i agree aboutwhat you said about those radical fujoshis. Is really weird when they say shit like that. I have a gay brother, but i don't go around imagining him having sex. Some people just go way too far

While I may not agree with everything stated, I'd say you give a pretty adequate explanation for fetishization.

I think there is a line that should be drawn, because while it may be fiction, the sexualities aren't, so when there are those "yaoi fangirls" who get off or think its their "sexy sin" it makes us real gays uncomfortable. As long as you respect that people who are gay aren't a fetish, then have at the BL/GL!

oh shit this fucking arguement. like whatever the fuck you like, i dont care im not your mom, and tumblr just doesnt like anything but they are kind of right. _kind of_

I'm glad you think so! I always find it a bit tricky to explain things to those who can't experience them first-hand. (and thank you for voicing your disagreement respectfully! sometimes people get a bit too heated for proper reasoning, so discussions where one can be firm about what they stand for while remaining impartial are really nice.)

thank you (: that was very insightful.

That first point is debatable, but the second two are pretty accurate.

This!
Being a gay guy and constantly seeing “yaoi fangirls” obsess over gay sex is extremely discomforting (esp when they try to defend their obvious fetishization w/ bullshit points)

What...the...fuck? Yes you can fetishize straight people. How can you say such a thing and not recognize there are straight members in minority groups as well? Straight, asian men are seen as a hot commodity, because of kpop popularity. They're treated like sex symbols and described as "exotic". Straight, black men go through the same turmoil. What do you think the common stereotype about their "size" perpetuates? A feshitize desire. Straight, black women are festishize because of their bodies, yet are continually labeled "less desirable." Asian women are festishized, because of their so called "meek" personalities. They're sought after by people who like going on a power trip.....the list goes on. I'd like to add sexuality in no way dictates who is feshitized and who isn't. Nor does race. Nor does minority status. Atleast give INDIVIDUALS (gay, straight, bi, etc) the right to decide when they feel festishized, including the privileged, white, straight, cis, men.

Omg, are you serious? I meant you can’t fetishize someone for BEING straight. Of course you can fetishize people for their size, ethnicity, etc.

oh and the seme wasnt the one who raped the uke

Sorry following

There are several in this list of mine. http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/95672/?filter=&page=4
Quite a few of the ones I note it being past trauma would fit what you're looking for.

thanks!

You may like this one - http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hatsukoi_wa_gunjou_ni_tokeru/ has 1 the rare specimen of BEST seme on BL history.

You're welcome.

it was a amazing read, thank you

Welcome dear :)

Is this what you were looking for?

http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/konbini_kun/

yup!!! thank u

Chiku Bingo.

You can check on Lezhin offical site or the artist's Twitter. Anyways, Mangago has stopped hosting KS here ╮(￣▽￣)╭

koogi is currently being hospitalized last time i checked, may take a while before she is release (●￣(ｴ)￣●)

pretty sure that was awhile ago. she isn’t in the hospital anymore

Would you mind tell me what chapter is season 3 ?maybe I can help you find the link.

Or what chapter did you stop.

ah wait no, koogi released a Christmas special, you can read it on lehzin since that special is free, it should be release soon but mangago took it down since copyright (●'◡'●)ﾉ

i might

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