the seme is not only controlling, obsessed etc, but what i haven't seen mentioned in the comments is how the uke repeatedly asks him to stop during sex and he just doesn't. that's not "love".
but 35 chapters in i gave up. The portrayal of women is just too stereotypical and sexist, the main protagonist might as well be male, what a waste of potential.
"he is hetero but not inexperienced with men due to locker room culture..." is not what i think it is...