i’ve said this before, and i’ll say it again: NEVER EVER get into a relationship if you don’t love yourself first. you can’t give your partner the kind of love they deserve when you’re unable to give that love to yourself. insecurity is normal, BUT there’s a clear difference between having insecurities and genuinely hating yourself. i o......
I just hope that those who don’t love themselves who get into a relationship will be affected positively by others and to change their thoughts and love themselves rather than negatively impacting others to give them validation about themselves
Me and my ex both have low self-esteem, imagine that.. our relationship turned very resentful near the end because of our need to overcompensate, and insecurity played a big part because we both felt the other could do better
My father, who hated himself, married my mum, who loved herself enough and then he destroyed her mentally throughout their marriage by being an abusive shithead until the day he finally offed himself. Now she thinks of herself as deserving of less and lost literally all of the light from her eyes.
So yeah, definitely don't get into a relationship ......
Yes happening to everyone. No you won't get anything back, they've already ran through restoration so what u have now is it. You'll have to readd everything. Look through update notifs, bookmarks, lists you've followed.
Don't feel too stressed- you'll find everything again and starting fresh isn't all bad, it helped me realize how much I had star......