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should people who don't love themselves get into a relationship?
I've recently had this conversation with my bsf and we have different opinions. I'll make them short.
hers was : There is no boundary in Love, they can enter a relationship if they want to. Not loving yourself doesn't imply that you can't love anyone.
while mine was that : I don't agree because the most important type of love is SELF-LOVE. Why would you shower someone with the love you can't even give to yourself?
I think neither of us was wrong and we just had different approaches, we didn't agree abt this cause I always ask her opinions.
Can you guys share your thoughts on this one too? I'd love to read them too cause everyone has different opinions, the way I interpreted mine could be wrong to others but I'd like to know
My father, who hated himself, married my mum, who loved herself enough and then he destroyed her mentally throughout their marriage by being an abusive shithead until the day he finally offed himself. Now she thinks of herself as deserving of less and lost literally all of the light from her eyes.
So yeah, definitely don't get into a relationship ...... 2 reply
