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Can anyone reccomend me a funny yaoi / shounen ai about teenagers that are falling inlove but it had a couple of heartfelt/ sad moments.
Dog style
(づ￣ ³￣)づ Kasougenjitsu Ren'airon
I personally find this funny but it is a good yaoi manga, not sure if it fits ur description of what ur looking for though Σ( ￣□￣||)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/bokurani_matsuwaru_etc/ (the first story, though all the other ones are also good)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/dash/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/katappashi_kara_zenbu_koi/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/blue_sky_complex/ (not really a comedy but it has it's moments)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/doukyuusei_nakamura_asumiko/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sotsugyousei/ (cont. of the one above)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/occupation_to_beloved/ (cont. of the one above but also has other stories from the spin offs)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/endou_kun_no_kansetsu_nikki/
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So me and this guy have known each other since the day I was born. We are family friends and I use to have a crush on him when we were little. About a year ago we became fwb ( well sorta we didn't go all the way) But I grew feelings for him and wrote him a love letter confessing my feelings. In the letter I said he didn't have to reply to it since I knew he didn't feel the same way about me. However when we hooked up he said he regretted that he lost his virginity to someone else and his first time wasn't with me ( that might have been him drunk talking though lol) SO at the time I felt it could mean deep down I have a special place in his heart . He is the type of guy that just wants to party and not be tied down in a relationship. He's an immature little shit right now. I never wanted to be his girlfriend I was just happy he was in my life to be honest. I hate how he always called the shots about everything. But if I ever turned it down he would act like a little bitch about it. He continued to talk to me after I confessed like everything was normal. There are times where I feel he just uses me and is just a fuck boy. But then there are other times where it seems he could care about me. Recently I told him I don't want to be fwb anymore and he acted like an asshole about it but then texted me a couple days later as if we didnt get into a fight & he hasn't mentioned it so I guess he's cool with just being friends( which is what I want). We don't see each other often but he texts me or snap chats every two weeks or more.lately though I have been ignoring his texts because Im not sure if I want him in my life. His actions have hurt me at times and I don't want negativity in my life.But at the same time I have to see him at least twice a year and don't want to make it awkward. I just want to be friends with him. But Im not sure if it would a healthy friendship
That's easy. If you feel it wouldn't be a healthy friendship, stay away. Nobody needs unhealthy relationships in their lives.
Hello! I don't think there's really anything wrong with what you're doing. From what you've posted, he seems like a jerk, so it was right of you to ditch the fool. If I were you, I would've been like "F*** you, you little b*tch, I'm outta here." In my opinion, it would be really hard to be friends after such experiences since the guy gives the vibes that he's the type to be over dramatic about things. I had a boyfriend and he didn't really do anything for our relationship. All he wanted to do was have sex. I have a very straightforward personality and I rejected him so many times. I am glad I didn't give up my virginity to him because he was a whiny b*stard. For you, I would just let him be and don't bother with him anymore. When the time comes for you two to meet again, and he's still a jerk, just shake your head in disappointment and walk out like a boss.
You're the only person who can answer these questions. However, I'd advise you to distance yourself (emotionally) from the matter and then decide. You can e.g. talk to someone who knows the whole situation- that would be convenient bc you'd express your doubts out loud.
But I think you probably already know what to do, you just don't realize it yet.
Seriously, I'm the last person who should give advice on personal and social matters -__-
I think that the situation is clearer than you think it is because you've explained it well, which means that you are very well aware of it. I think that the three key expressions here are: 1) doesn't want commitment, 2) a**h**le, 3) you feel that he is bringing you down = negativity.
The three combined can only mean that you should definitely distance yourself from him.
As for meeting him twice per year, it doesn't have to be awkward at all, just treat him as you would treat a guest whom you're meeting for the first time (a guest who will always remain such i.e. will never become neither an acquaintance nor a friend).
P.S. All the decisions can be handled when you think of yourself as someone who deserves love and respect. If the other person doesn't show you both, just cut him loose without even turning back.
Hmm...I'm trying to be as objective as possible as I feel that most comments so far are on your side as we've only heard your point of view (rightly so since we've only heard from you) but, if I were imagining myself as the guy, you said you liked me and didn't care if I felt the same, then tried to cut off our relationship. Not saying that's how things went but we always want to think other people understand our emotions more than they do, meaning that's probably all he understood from situation.
You want to be as forthcoming as possible in situations like these. Don't just say he did things that hurt you but explain what specifically hurt you and why those things did.
As for your position in this entire situation...you need evaluate whether the emotional investment is worth the payoff for you. You say you see him twice a year- are those in depth, "what are your dreams" conversations or "how was your day
conversations. Basically, if it isn't emotionally/mentally enriching' there;s no benefit beyond physical, you may want to rethink your relationship. As a girl (which I assume you are, correct me if I'm wrong), a physical relationship is the easiest one to establish. Long story short, unless he gives you something no one does, you're wasting your time. You can find the same emotional payoff with less work. But, most importantly, don't assume what he knows. I've thout to myself more than once that guys are dumb lol.
Awh guys thanks for the advice it really did help me a lot and made me realize what I already know but was trying to deny to myself( if that makes sense). @narutolvr To "answer about the You say you see him twice a year- are those in depth, "what are your dreams" conversations or "how was your day conversations. Basically, if it isn't emotionally/mentally enriching' there;s no benefit beyond physical, you may want to rethink your relationship" To be honest when we were little , we grew up always having deep conversation like that when we are little. We always talked about our dreams and we use to always ask each other advice from struggles we dealt with at the moment. We kind would always find a way to talk by ourselves when we would play hide and seek so it could just be the two of us. (We had a lot to catch up about since we really only see each other for three or four days since it was when our families had vacation together)But now he rarely opens up really every so often but then I noticed he tries to hide his emotions. But even now he makes me feel better about situations that I can’t really talk about with my other family. I recently have came out that I am bi to a couple of people I am closest with. I have only told my sister and best friend and two cousins. But they kind are hard too talk about it with. But when I told him he was completely fine with it and made me feel normal about it. I felt a lot more comfortable talking about it then I had ever felt with anyone , he made me feel more sucure about my sexuality. Meanwhile I am terrified to tell my whole entire family about ( besiedes the few that already know). Guys im sorry I am saying so mcuh I am getting alot out of my chest right now lol. I
Hey Bunny, let me start by letting you know how brave I think you are for baring your heart like you have. It's not an easy thing to do. I'd like to offer you some advice as someone who has been where you are but, I need to know how old you are (and how old he is too) first. We all grow and change with our life experiences so, the advice will change depending on where you and he are in age / experiences. Is that okay?
Yeah I am 16 years old my birthday is on july 23, 1998 and he not even a month older than me he was born on July 7 he is sixteen too.