Gunther's Questions (4)

what is this? Real life anime?

(●￣(ｴ)￣●) I wish

after reading two shoujo manga:

SO. yesterday my friend had a birthday party at her house, it was just our small group of friends. I ended up wasted and annoying because every time I get drunk I want to kiss everybody the gender doesn't matter. NOW my friend (F) probably taking advantage of the situation started kissing me, we were on the floor deeply kissing each other. And my friends did absolutely nothing to stop us. Today the birthday girl texted me about this. She said that they were thinking Tha (F) wasn't drunk, when e were kissing, when they saw us they didn't know what to do and were unconfortable with the whole situation. I told her that I was angry with them for doing nothing and she said that I shouldn't blame them but (F) and myself.
To try putting myself in their clothes.
NOW YOU TELL ME WHY I SHOULD BLAME MYSELF FOR GETTING DRUNK AT HER HOUSE, I mean why should I feel guilty about a thing I had no control whatsoever, my only fault was playing vodka-pong. We are friends I trust you to take care of me when I can't even stand up!
I am so angry.

You said it yourself that you have the drunk behaviour of kissing everybody, so partially its your own fault.
1.st : Don't get wasted at parties
2 nd : If you want to get wasted, at least tell or ask a friend to look out for you

You should understand as an adult to control your alcohol intake. This is entirely your fault.

If you can't handle it don't drink at another's house. You had control on how much alcohol you put in your body.

Ok but it was just us ten friends, me and another one were wasted the other were all sober.
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I'm not as mad as before, sorry if i sounded rude

It's quite alright! I was just voicing my opinion; it's always fine to do the same~

People like you makes me wonder if you even have friends irl cause no one cares about people’s real life stuff here. A manga site isn’t for your personal rants.

Thanks for the advice, I will keep it in mind

Isn't it a little bit harsh, is it?
Especially because people from this manga site answered wholeheartedly and voluntarily.
AND this is not the only post about a real life problem!!

Next time don't drink so much if you know that's what usually happens.

I believe they understand they messed up, so are the harshful words necessary? Please, don't push this further then it needs to go.

It wouldn't work I am to lazy for anything

Art, art everywhere, but no food.
Quite chaotic.
We'd all live under bridges until there's no more bridges to live under at.
We'd also all be friends online.

They would all want to commit suicide for no reason in particular, probably be mature, logical and pretty cool to hang out with.

We’d all be having arguments lol, but not full on wars

Childish ,wants to get pampered but than there won't be anyone who will pamper me .is there anyone who loves to pamper the one they are close with?i am on the other side.i love me some love.

You into ABDL?

I don't wanna brag but I'm very popular and an extrovert and I have good a pretty good social life and I thrive on mangas lol

i do, so i guess yes? :') (im not a teen anymore though, im a young adult)

I am also a quiet and lonely person without a social life. I don't generally read yaoi though.

lol xd

I'm just a person with a social life??? It depends on what you think a social life is. I have friends that I hang out with, usually in groups of 3 or 5.
I'm not very good at regularly talking to people online unless I know them in person. It makes me feel uneasy when I can't see someone's face and changes in facial expression or hear their tone.

I am someone who is talkative and I have a group of friends only 2 that like anime and yaoi so I talk to them alot and it is really hard to be like that.I mean it is not something others like you to do.When I say I was watching something and my friend was in a restoraunt and I didnt see her,since we were telling this story to my best friend she was like AYA!you were watching anime again,...I was like no. Then they call my yaoi group anime people,we are not respected as people in the class who were otakus and my ''best friends'' always said those things

Well, I had one friend who did that. Though as we grew older and I, of course, would tell her if something bothered me, it wasn't an issue anymore. I've always been really "picky" with my friends, only 2 of my friends out of 5 is into anime. We talk about random things like one of my friends back home just texted our group chat saying "my fish will attack a laser pointer."
I did in the past, have friends I didn't feel comfortable around, but then I went to another high school and found my 5 group pals. Which I still keep contact with today from University and I hang out with them every spring/summer when I come back home. In my case, I had the chance to start over, which is nice to do sometimes.
Though coincidentally my friends in University all seem to be into anime. Weird how that happens. XD

I'm also quite a quiet person , but I'm not lonely , I don't think I feel lonely
Honestly , I see ppl bothersome most of the time , and yeah I used to read yaoi a lot , but not much now

What an idiot lol, I mean yeah it is possible tomate a guy you just met ... If it's for nothing serious ... IDK I just don't believe in people, if the same thing happened to me I'd do the same thing ... Nah I wouldn't even give him my Instagram account , like who the fuck is he? A stalker or sth? Wtf

Yeah... that guy sounds like a douche, honestly. Rule number 1: You don’t try to hook up with people, especially girls, at the gym while people are trying to work out. It’s just not cool. And instantly trying to compliment you like that, and wanting to date you without knowing anything about you? Pretty shady. And willing you his friends thought you were ugly was probably just a last-ditch lie to get under your skin since his tactics clearly weren’t working. I’m glad it ended safely for you, and if I can recommend some good stuff, I’m not sure what you’re into, but:
BJ Alex
Peach Love
Sign Language
Scent of a Witch
and Ordinary Men are a couple of good ones.

Wow, that's so... pitiful. Usually they try to at least invite you for a coffee before they make any offers (and it always boils down to sex, sometimes under the guise of "dating" if they have little confidence).

Glad you dealt with him. Be careful of giving your contact info to strangers, goodness knows what they'll do with it. And don't be afraid to be a little rude if you need to shoot a guy down - I found out that being friendly is usually misread as being interested. If he approaches you based on looks, he doesn't want to be friends.

Protect your heart!! Don't go along with someone's pace like that LMAO bruh even yaoi stories have more of a decent start than that zz Don't give your contact and reject a creep like that and do whatever it takes for him to fuck off

Dudeee a similar thing happened to Me, some guy texted me in the middle of the night 2 days after I met him about how much he liked me and how special I was and it annoyed the crap out of me.
Let's say we both learned our lesson to not give our info out to random dudes, especially if they're super forward like that ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Update: Now he is ok with staying as a friend.
Is he retarded?
He is going to cry Again when I reject him for the second time, I'm probably going to block him too... Meh
Whatever (●￣(ｴ)￣●)

He underestimated the power of a fujoshi too much

Thank you for the answer, and the manga it made me really happy.

Ahahahah that was the first thing that popped up in my mind when he asked for my instagram

Thank you very much for the answer it made me really happy. You know, from the answer you sound like a really good person, so I will call you anonymous mama (I call you the same if you're a guy, cauz i think daddy is too much ahahah).