JUL's Questions (18)

Ring - its a chinese manhua. Its for good and easy read. Its cute, fluffy, male preg, and kinda spicy. It has many chapters.

thank you

Np ╮(￣▽￣)╭

Half of Me - shounen ai but very recommended
Unromantic - omegaverse
Dream Away
The Most Ordinary Relationship

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Thank you vro

You’re welcome, enjoy!

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thx vro

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thx vro

its for a friend i swear!

hmm… everyone seems to be asking for recs for a friend nowadays

yess........yeah......i have friends....who also ask for stuff like this....

yall stob eyeing me!

i meant like seke...umm yah

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Akiyama-kun

dawn of the dragon

Kiss wa Tsugai ni Hizamazuku
Unromantic

thx

thank you

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By not interacting with anyone

That's a good one!

Interacting per text and keeping the topic away from your person helps. Back in the day I started by commenting my thoughts on YouTube videos and manga updates in a simple, funny way and people chiming in once in a while really helped easing things in. :)
Posting simple stuff like liking a certain comic panel or phrase that was said was I think the stuff I started with. Often people come along and agree and potentially add a little something I wrote back to in an agreeing manner. If you do that for a while you gain more confidence and get less scared. In person things might seem different but nowadays you could maybe look for a gaming lobby of a casual or girly game that has voice chat and try the same there. Or Discord fangroups with voice chats.
Small stuff like that. Baby steps come a long way.

But all in all trying to seek professional help is probably a needed step too since these mental issues always stem from something (usually childhood trauma or borderline traumatic stuff) and rather than try and tackle the symptoms alone, maybe try seek help to tackle the problem of it all and talk about that first. Being told by a professional that you should do this and that or try to do this and that is probably a VERY important step to get better.

There is a book called The Subtle Art of Not Giving a F*ck I've been meaning to read it myself you should give it a try.

omg! thank yo so much!! I'll try to do that!

No problem, good luck! <3

sure! thanks!

boundaries and self confidence in order to have these you should communicate (womp womp) start by doing lil by lil until you can say no about shyness idk maybe look at people and realize how dumb they are

ye. Thx! I'll work on that! I have started to say no but in a few min ill start to think 'wat will they do! poor them, I should help!' and then I end up helping them...even if they are like people who mock me right in my face...I am starting to slowly consider options to avoid such people...I am in my senior year so its just a few months and ill probably never see them again...

as a fellow only and super shy person as well it helps to divert the attention to the other person. Noticing that theyve helped you with this, which helped you achieved what they complimented you for creates good rapport. I would also ask, why do you feel flustered? it’s better to know what causes it or pin some triggers to understand the hows of it after. Mine is more of self-doubt.

it's good that you are going to get rid of them lame mfs soon but instead of asking these questions ask these would they do the same thing for you? or care? hope this helps bc i feel like those podcast dudes

if you flustered just laugh and turn it into a joke or an irony. Or say something like "yeh i know i m amazing thanks" Just say anything that makes you look like you dont care their valuation, that you dont need their approval because it s too obvious that you are too good to say it out loud

personally i feel uncomfortable when they praise me because you have to praise them back to be polite, and it s hard for me to praise people without a good reason

Ye thank you! I don't rlly know why I'm that shy...everytime someone complements me I just feel like I'll let them down in the future...maybe because of that idk..I just wanna be my best for college, find new friends, be happy in general and ofcourse study hard!

I'll try that! I never thought of saying like this! Thanks bro!

Ye that too! I just leave the room or pretend I didn't hear them praise me but when they like come up to you and say stuff like 'thx bro' i rlly can't do anything...

I know they don't think they care....this thing actually runs in my family, we loove giving (it's in our culture too...we donate a lot) but I feel that I just do it to an extreme...but I will question myself next time in my such a situation!

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Omg! thx!

Here are a few with black haired uke~
1. No reason (mafia boss x mafia boss)
2. Banana fish (mafia)
3. Red mansion (mafia x poor uke/shopkeeper)
4. The Baby That Master Brought is Sus! (mafia x judo teacher)
5. Blue Revenge (tribal seme with power x black magician uke)

Woah I just noticed, coincidentally four of them were mafia stories

less goo!

Yeah :))

Bro I thought red mansion would be a light hearted story about the two

welp...just something abt that guy screams red flag to me....ig im right....

Why bro It has a psychopath seme x yandere uke tag so nothing lighthearted about it :/

Yes you're and SPOILER ALERT: Uke is a red flag too :/

Omg I thought that too! But I was like 'he looks so pitiful' p

I just have to read that in the list...i thought it will be emotionally draining so I saved for another day...

It's not really emotionally draining cuz they're both red flags :p

But I just couldn't read 'No reason'...I just didn't like it for no reason....I read till ch 29 but then I stopped...I just don't understand the semester feelings (if he has any)... first few ch were normal like I thought it was puppy seme but when he kidnapped uke and rap started (rap is not my thing I couldn't sleep for 3 days after reading those ch...it's just kinda digusting... personally it's just like that)..everytime he visited uke I felt 'ok this time he'll like mc go' but never...after mc escaped (i swear to god...i just hoped he will never find mc again) i literally wanted them to never see eachother but still he found out....I'll stop here as I don't really want to ever remember this story...it is well written if it meant to be upsetting to read....I usually never want to put down a book, manga anything if I have started to read it but this was one of those things that I knew I will never ever want to read again....

Ooh...I guess it's because I'm sick idk ..

Don't read it if it makes you uncomfortable :(
You health comes first :))

I was talking about Red mansion
Only the seme is a red flag in No Reason
You misunderstood

Oh ik...I was saying that maybe because I am sick i found it emotionally draining to read red mansion and that I will prob read it someother time. (I do know that bot are red flags) but I will never ever read no reason ever (I just hate it for no reason. Pun intended)

Ok Take care of your body and get well soon :))

Yee thanks bro...

Welcome bro

I don't read tags plus I just came back from reading another mafia x poor store owner story

Name bro?

Love in orbit & shutline

Dangerous Convenience Store?

Oh