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Im going into high school this year the only problem is making new friends, Idk how to tbh since lots of people there are ghetto based on where I live, feels like im not as mature as them but other than that can any of yall suggest things to do for my first year?
high school is nothing to stress about!!! “ghetto” kids in high school are literally so immature and most of the time nice so don’t worry about them!! for your first year just focus on school especially if your going to college! freshmen year is really easy and most people who complain about high school are dramatic. Overall, ur first year will go by super fast and i promise you, you will find friends. There’s so many different types of people in high school that it’s pretty much difficult to not have friends!! one con about high school however is your current friends WILL change, BUTTT you are going to change too and it’ll be for the better!!! hope ur first year of high school goes well (≧∀≦)
Firstly, Take it slow and focus on yourself the most, and your school work. You can put yourself out there,out of your comfort zone. Don't be shy to start conversations and just be yourself :)
Sorry not to be that person but you should not be sharing your age/referencing your age online especially after that one incident on the discussions here
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-dont wear vans
-dont wear certain styles that will make you stand out
-have decent shoes (preferably one pair of crocs and one pair of clog uggs)
-keep your grades up good for freshman year if you do bad it'll come back to bite you in the butt junior and senior year
-don't become friends with the,"alt" kids you'll get bullied and will get talked bad about
-get all your required classes to graduate out of the way so senior year you can chill
-don't bring up anime. unless it's main stream like JJK, AOT or one piece
-earbuds you need earbuds to survive doesn't matter if they're good or not
-just blend in
-make one good friend group then have a bunch of other friend groups as like backup friend groups I guess
it's better to blend in then stand out and if you stand out make sure you're the popular kind of stand out. ALSO try your best not to gossip they're all snitches
omg what happened
This old lady got super defensive at this 14 year old and called her a slut and exposed her age
SOMETHING LIKE THAT
OMG md i didnt know ╥﹏╥
i feel like i can really relate with this, when i was 8 i started to release how fat i was from others kid and how some of them would make fun of me for it especially my mom. she kinda reminded me of the bf in the story but different, she would criticizes my weight, hair, body, the way i dress which made me start doing makeup but i found out at the age of 11 she was talking sh*t about me with her other friends and when i confronted her she said that she wasnt and then judging me and everything about me. i'm now 14 and still this is happening i feel just like her in the story i know i need help but i dont know where to start cuz i cant control myself when im sad and binge cuz i know the reason on y im so sad is because of her. idk if anyone will see this but pls help me, my last resort is to ask random strangers online, i just want for someone I know what im going through and instead of throwing up, I cut myself cuz I cant make myself throw up for some reason so if anyone can help with that thank u.
If you can, you should consult with a counsellor or a teacher you trust at school.
Don't give up ! Binging is something that helps go through difficult times. But in general being fat is not a problem but a consequence of deeper problems you can face (difficult relationship with parents with your mom in your case or friends etc.) You have to find the real cause of your problem if you want to get better. Don't let them get the Best of you.
I was like you in middle school and highschool. I am now 21. In my case I hated school, and as soon as I got into college I went to the gym and fueled my anger into sport even though I didnt really like sport before.
Don't give up, self harm is not a solution. Try to drive your anger and frustration towards hobbies, sport, music, art or whatever. I am rooting for you !