It's a Korean bl manhwa. Mc was closeted gay guy simping for a divorced writer and was sleeping W his friend. Omfg it was such a real manhwa and it was so good. Mc (bottom) was black hair and the ml was blond and he had a condition where he couldn't taste his food...?
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_man_who_can_t_taste/
I believe it is the one
GUYS MANGAGO DID ME DIRTY AND DELTED ALL MY READ NOVELS SO NOW I HAVE LOST TWO OF MOST FAVORITE NOVELS AND I CANT FIND THEM PLEASE HELP
1. Its a korean bl i think the previous title was did you do it?. The mc is ki seungjung, a perverted shaman who needs sexual energy to utlise his shaman powers, ml is a mafia boss who is searching for the culprit responsible for the death of his adoptive father (its heuksa), his subordinates are jebi and solgae, and i think is name starts with jin
2. Friends to lovers, straight guys been best friends all their lives, virgins cause they cant interact w women, decide to have sex w each other. its a japanese bl. Bottom is called rin, top is nozomu.

Japanese bl omega verse gets real dark very much discussing secondary gender issues I only remember the side couple omegas name was rin and he took too many suppressants and started losing his memory
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/shounen_no_kyoukai/