I'm. Not sure I can continue reading this, she's such a Doormat! It's hard to watch over and over. I realize she was heavily abused but at some point you gotta stand up for yourself. I get why she's like this but it's frustrating to watch her run around in circles trying to please an abuser. She needs serious mental help. It would nice to see her just get away from that Asshole and learn how to love herself. Cuz leapfrogging into another relationship with another manipulative man is not the answer. I was hoping the doormat faze would be short but ugh.
when will yall stop calling victims of abuse doormats, thats such ignorant thing to say, wishing it would as easy as you say. 'Just love yourself, my bro the amount o woman on this world who suffer the same fate as her cannot just get out easily and love themselves. Its a long process. Independance is also important for that. Where should she go ?? With what money?? What happens if her husband gets angry and tries to find her and wants to harm her then? There are many aspects that need to considered
Mincheol is soooo evil he gaslighted her so much that she doubts herself before him but also because she loved him sooo much, she's not a "doormat"(which is so disrespectful to say about a victim of abuse) she's traumatised, gaslighted and a really kind person that actually loved that trash man. Also it's not easy leaving an abusive relationship and you shouldn't speak when you don't know how these victims feel.
Regardless there has to be a point where step up for yourself, lots have people have gone through those things this and worse and I don't speak from nowhere. I speak from personal experience. But you have to fight for yourself or you die. That's realit. Also that man has been hurting for YEARS as we all know hes only going to get worse and trying to balance his abuse will never keep her safe. She's already basically taking care of herself and him. She is and has always been alone. So she can do it. Hopefully she'll realize that like we all have to. Sometimes the only person who can save you is you!
I do know from experience which why I said what I said, and which why it's so personally frustrating for me. Not to mention watching friends do the same. I was a doormat and I decided not to be anymore. Thank goodness my situations were never this bad but still bad enough. Like said you have to decide to stand up for yourself. Hopefully she will otherwise she'll waste away and die. Sometimes the only person who can save you is you.
I get where you're coming from but this mincheol rat is a dangerous gaslighter and the only love she's over known is from him in their early years, not even her parents as we've seen from the flashbacks. You stood up for yourself because you knew you deserved better but she believes she's an old hag and no one will love her due to his gaslighting. She is starting to question him more but it's hard because of how much Mincheol has got to her. (Plus she's in contact with NO ONE, no friends no family so she doesn't seem to tell people what goes on and ask for advice).
I agree with you, he legit towered and cornered her because she questioned him a little. He could harm her any second.
I completely agree he is trash, I just mean that there has to be a turning point and I hope her or anyone in that situation get to that point and save themselves
Is it just me or has the art gotten more beautiful but the story has gotten more covuluted and boring? ╥﹏╥
Totally!! Don't even know what's happening
It's the bad translation, the official eng comes out in a couple days, just wait for that.
The art got super good but I don't understand what's going on either, I don't know if it's the translation or the story just got convoluted. Which is sad cuz before the story was really good
SPOILERS!
Phew this story is a whole ass mess. But it is well put together and just as messy as real relationships. I feel like this is how it would happen in real life. It's not Yoon's fault that he got hurt and was in a coma. And it's not Taejoo's fault that he tried to move on. BUT Taejoo's cruelty to Yoon was wrong no matter what. He didn't have to treat him the way he did. I understand he did it like that because he was hurt over those five years but that's not Yoon's fault. But we all know that most people want someone to blame and Taejoo took his pain out on the most vulnerable person in the situation.
Now Yenwoo that fucking asshole hes the worst of the worst. He didn't comfort Taejoo cuz he cared he did it cuz he wanted him. And when he got a chance by sleeping with a DRUNK PERSON, that thought he was Yoon he took his chance. And when he realized Taejoo thought he raped him he let him keep thinking that cuz it would guilt him into staying in the relationship. No relationships built on lies ever stand. Then he had the audacity to attack Yoon several times. Ugh! He's trash. I don't really feel sorry for Yenwoo's character he's reaping what he sowed.
I just don't know how this is gonna turn out. But I know Ohn is gonna be super mad when he finds out both of them have been lying. I want him to end up with both of them. Cuz even though they both are fucking up. They both really like him. But they never should have done this. Sae-woo never should have asked no matter how shy he is and Jae-woo never should have agreed. I know they are like this cuz of their back ground but still it's not healthy for any of them. All 3 of them are gonna a mess for a while.
Finally! Oooooo I can't wait for those two fake ass Motherfuckers to go down! Poor Hyuwoo.
Ughhhhh! Please please please, no more abuse or rape. I hate it! I hope they get that blonde fucker quick! But they really like to drag these kind of story arcs out. Ugh!
I was really loving this story until they brought in that shitty coworker.
These authors make way to light of sexual assault and harassment. Yes I agree that Makoto needs to be firm and tell Tsuji to fuck off. They never should have let him get away with the first sexual assault at the Hotel while on a business trip. And now he's trying to assault him again at work! I'm sick to death of that nasty bastard!
Makoto has a serious complex about his sexual proclivities and about people finding out. That's normal especially in some countries. It can be deadly even in America for people to find out you're gay or bi or any part of the LGBTQ community. And that bastard Tsuji is using that to his advantage.
Remember what he (Tsuji the bastard) said to Makoto the first time he assaulted him? "you cheated on your boyfriend". This is mental intimidation. Not to mention that he attacks everytime Makoto is at a low point. Like when he was sleep at the Hotel, and again when he was having the problem with the at work dentist.
Makoto isn't the problem, he's doing his best to move forward and do better but he still has low self esteem. And Tsuji is literally a predator. So don't blame the victim. Blame the bastard predator.
So the green haired half brother works for hyunwo's boss too. He's fucking with Hyunwo on two fronts! He's the one who stole the money that hyunwo git blamed for! And he's the half brother of hyunwo's classmate. I hope the boss gets him before he gets to hyunwo. I have no desire to see hyunwo get raped by the abused brother and the sick fuck green haired brother.
This dude is toxic AF I hope they don't try to gaslight us into thinking this relationship they had can be rekindled or redeemed!? The Uke needs some hardcore therapy! Both of them do! This whole thing is a gross mess. I stayed cuz the other 2 stories were pretty good and the art is beautiful but this is just too much.