please don't hurt iseop, it just sucks seeing someone as lovely as the ML get treated badly or unfairly, like no hate to her cause she's a powerful and strong MC but still the confusion and pain for the ML is so understandable. Like she was being so wishy washy, making him wait for her while leading him on then getting with him, showing him love and throwing him away. LIKE FULLY playing with his feelings. Bro I just kinda lost respect for her. In this situation, he has every right to be sad, frustrated, shocked, etc. I don't think hes a man child in this case for this reason. Anyone who's been through a similar situation like iseop will understand (being played/lead on like that).
Exactly 100% people keep calling him a man child but the way the female lead treats him is just way too cruel and yeah we are in the part she is protecting herself but the way she keeps wishy washy about her feelings to him, leading him on and show her love to him and then break his heart damn it is all valid that iseop feels that way.
Tbvh we should apply gender equality on this one coz iseop has feelings too the only wrong he did in is too fall in love and that's okay to feel hurt, beg her to stay, pleading her not to leave him... people forget that man can be hurt too. Yes the fl is strong but at what cost? hurting someone to protect herself is basically an excuse . She is running away and hurting iseop is one of that. She is hurting him just like how iseop was hurt by her actions. Inflicting pain on someone is not the protection you all think it is.
Exactly 100% people keep calling him a man child but the way the female lead treats him is just way too cruel and yeah we are in the part she is protecting herself but the way she keeps wishy washy about her fe... CatAria
the worse part is that iseop has never felt like he could show his emotions, thats why its so easy for the ML to blow up on his feelings with someone he cares about and loves like the MC (like to cry, be mad, pout, laugh, just being genuine). like he was constantly pressured as a kid, he can't make his own decisions, his life is not his own and he doesn't have the luxury of relying on people like the MC can. hes the perfect example of rich yet lonely. I mean I like the MC's care and connection with her family but it's more complicated for the ML; his mom is lwk obsessed with him, his dad only wants to take advantage of him, the second male lead just pities him and his grandpa cares for him but iseop isn't comfortable opening up to him because of all the business pressure(so high expectations + also he doesn't have the personality to be relying on people after he's been used so much). I agree with you especially when you said that inflicting pain on someone is not the protection people think it is. she's honestly bringing everyone down with her. like she didn't want to get in his way in his career which is really thoughtful but also creates an unnecessary burden on both her and Iseop (idk how to explain this). shes leaving everyone who cares about her, destroying herself, the ML once again and just everyone. they honestly should've communicated on this matter cause noe iseop is gonna have to think its all his fault and hes the problem again, tbh she shouldn't have indulged in her desire for him if she was planning on dropping him, its fucked because hes not an object you can just love one day and neglect the rest of your life.anyways, I be rambling too much
the worse part is that iseop has never felt like he could show his emotions, thats why its so easy for the ML to blow up on his feelings with someone he cares about and loves like the MC (like to cry, be mad, p... chococloclo
You are right. This is what I think as well. Iseop is not an object to be just thrown away after giving him a taste of this short term care and love... Iseop has feelings too. It is valid to be sad, frustrated, cry and shows emotions that he wants her to stay.. so idk why people are so harsh on him.
and The fl should had not give him any expectations, or show any desires to accept him and then leave him... she is not only hurting herself but she hurt that one person who loves her. Idk why people thinks that Iseop is a man child when all this time he shows how genuine he is and when he cries like that begging for her not leave him will leave a deep scar in his heart and the fact that you said he will probably think its his fault, I kinda feel that will happen, esp with the personality he has... that's why the fl's so called sacrifices by inflicting pain on him can either be a destruction to someone. If only she can rely on Iseop just like how she has connection with her family... this will not happen. I can only see that she is running away from her problems by sayinh she will go to a foreign country qhen we all know it's not and I am just disappointed that she kinda thinks that by doing this she is protecting him - which is NOT.
I also get she has a strong personality and she trulu cares but the way she did is totally a destruction not only to her but the people around her esp Iseop. Protecting someone means you gotta protect his whole well being, not only physically but also emotionally - this time its not.
well I keep blabbering as well but yeah it kinda frustrates me to lol
please don't hurt iseop, it just sucks seeing someone as lovely as the ML get treated badly or unfairly, like no hate to her cause she's a powerful and strong MC but still the confusion and pain for the ML is so understandable. Like she was being so wishy washy, making him wait for her while leading him on then getting with him, showing him love and throwing him away. LIKE FULLY playing with his feelings. Bro I just kinda lost respect for her. In this situation, he has every right to be sad, frustrated, shocked, etc. I don't think hes a man child in this case for this reason. Anyone who's been through a similar situation like iseop will understand (being played/lead on like that).
Exactly 100%
people keep calling him a man child but the way the female lead treats him is just way too cruel and yeah we are in the part she is protecting herself but the way she keeps wishy washy about her feelings to him, leading him on and show her love to him and then break his heart damn it is all valid that iseop feels that way.
Tbvh we should apply gender equality on this one coz iseop has feelings too the only wrong he did in is too fall in love and that's okay to feel hurt, beg her to stay, pleading her not to leave him... people forget that man can be hurt too. Yes the fl is strong but at what cost? hurting someone to protect herself is basically an excuse . She is running away and hurting iseop is one of that. She is hurting him just like how iseop was hurt by her actions. Inflicting pain on someone is not the protection you all think it is.
Exactly
the worse part is that iseop has never felt like he could show his emotions, thats why its so easy for the ML to blow up on his feelings with someone he cares about and loves like the MC (like to cry, be mad, pout, laugh, just being genuine). like he was constantly pressured as a kid, he can't make his own decisions, his life is not his own and he doesn't have the luxury of relying on people like the MC can. hes the perfect example of rich yet lonely. I mean I like the MC's care and connection with her family but it's more complicated for the ML; his mom is lwk obsessed with him, his dad only wants to take advantage of him, the second male lead just pities him and his grandpa cares for him but iseop isn't comfortable opening up to him because of all the business pressure(so high expectations + also he doesn't have the personality to be relying on people after he's been used so much). I agree with you especially when you said that inflicting pain on someone is not the protection people think it is. she's honestly bringing everyone down with her. like she didn't want to get in his way in his career which is really thoughtful but also creates an unnecessary burden on both her and Iseop (idk how to explain this). shes leaving everyone who cares about her, destroying herself, the ML once again and just everyone. they honestly should've communicated on this matter cause noe iseop is gonna have to think its all his fault and hes the problem again, tbh she shouldn't have indulged in her desire for him if she was planning on dropping him, its fucked because hes not an object you can just love one day and neglect the rest of your life.anyways, I be rambling too much
You are right. This is what I think as well. Iseop is not an object to be just thrown away after giving him a taste of this short term care and love... Iseop has feelings too. It is valid to be sad, frustrated, cry and shows emotions that he wants her to stay.. so idk why people are so harsh on him.
and The fl should had not give him any expectations, or show any desires to accept him and then leave him... she is not only hurting herself but she hurt that one person who loves her. Idk why people thinks that Iseop is a man child when all this time he shows how genuine he is and when he cries like that begging for her not leave him will leave a deep scar in his heart and the fact that you said he will probably think its his fault, I kinda feel that will happen, esp with the personality he has... that's why the fl's so called sacrifices by inflicting pain on him can either be a destruction to someone. If only she can rely on Iseop just like how she has connection with her family... this will not happen. I can only see that she is running away from her problems by sayinh she will go to a foreign country qhen we all know it's not and I am just disappointed that she kinda thinks that by doing this she is protecting him - which is NOT.
I also get she has a strong personality and she trulu cares but the way she did is totally a destruction not only to her but the people around her esp Iseop. Protecting someone means you gotta protect his whole well being, not only physically but also emotionally - this time its not.
well I keep blabbering as well but yeah it kinda frustrates me to lol
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