i genuinely think its hard to encounter something as vile as the way people treat the love intrests of main characters that have exes. the constant trivialization and denial when it comes to the mc's and their so's relationship just to make the the ex seem more important is damn exhausting! people break up for a reason! like no jane just because you cant get over your ex and treat everyone you've dated after them as a rebound or substitute doesnt meant that everyone is like that. Like god forbid someone moves on!!! god forbid someone has a healthy and loving relationship with someone other than their ex!!!!! oh what sacrilege!

anyone know the title for that one short jianghu bl where the mc gets reincarnated into a demon venerable or something and his whole cultivation scthick is being a virgin and having pure whatever energy and so the plan the righteous cultivators have to take him down is to basically have someone seduce him... and then the plot twist is like his cultivation doesn't revolve around being a virgin but rather like yang energy cuz he's cultivation some pure yin energy bs
camping here bc it sounds virgin4virgin lol (I'm starved for this trope i love this trope but all them men be going to poundtown downtown with 500 different people in a single day that's ok maybe it's js that i don't wanna read that trope no hate to them love me a good experience x experience dynamic aswell but like....T_T)
Idk if you're still intrested but i found it, its “Only When the Heavenly Demon Loses His Virginity Will Murim Survive” just a heads up its kinda dub-con