Not anymore, hoe. You ain’t got no game.
It’s making me forking anxious, baby boo.
I must have lived an uneventful life because I kept getting caught off guard.
I remember clearly that in the last chapter I had read, mc was running away from the castle and some sort of noble is chasing after him with the army (I also remember the kid he used to look after was killed after the noble threatened the mc with “If you don’t stop, I’ll keep killing them one by one.”) But mc didn’t stop and kept running.
The enemy is closer than you think, girl. He’s a handful.
I can feel my brain cells getting fried reading this, but it's not like my highschool experience was any better.
They're both seriously lacking in self-reflection and self-contemplation. Instead of talking things out, they just lashed out at each other.
Do not attempt what they did at your local bridge.
CNC does not mean "anything goes, no matter the injury." That's a fundamental misunderstanding of what the kink actually is.
Done correctly, CNC requires more trust, more negotiation, and more communication than vanilla sex, not less. You establish boundaries first. You agree on safewords. You talk about what's off-limits before you ever touch each other. The entire framework is built on mutual consent, just with a layer of roleplay on top.
I really wish the author was more educated on this. Because there are people who genuinely enjoy CNC, and people who strongly oppose it, that's fine. But either way, CNC does not grant anyone the right to physically harm their partner. That's not edgeplay nor kink. That's just injury with a label slapped on it. (And enjoying CNC does not automatically mean someone has a mental disorder.)
// In fact, major psychological and psychiatric bodies (like the American Psychological Association) do not classify BDSM practices, including CNC, as mental illnesses, provided they are:
· Consensual (genuinely, not coerced)
· Safe (risk-aware, with safeguards like safewords)
· Sane (not driven by psychosis, impaired judgment, or intent to cause non-consensual harm)
Many psychologically healthy people enjoy power exchange, taboo roleplay, or intensity that mimics lack of control, because they feel safe enough to explore fear or vulnerability in a controlled setting. It's often about trust, catharsis, or even processing past experiences in a way that feels empowering. //
And that's my two cents.
Hoping the divas will be informed after reading this long ass paragraph. xoxo.
Just so that all of you know that retaliatory violence disguised as “warning” isn’t a justification to let your partner harm you physically. Love and abuse can coexist. Your partner may genuinely love you and be capable of sexually harming you in anger.
They sat for hours on a phone call just for my sister to say nothing. And he kept calling for hours more, until his phone battery finally gave out. I couldn't bear to watch it anymore. So during one of their breaks, when they were taking time apart from the relationship, I sent him a video of my sister crying and rolling on the floor.
And it worked. They've been happily married for almost half a decade now.
That’s all I have to say, y’all are having it way too easy, back in our days, we only had a handful that we could consider as yaoi and they are mostly borderline predatory or straight up predatory in some sense. Ohh my days.
South Korea is a country where LGBTQ+ rights are still largely invisible in the legal system. Same-sex marriage isn't recognized. There's no comprehensive anti-discrimination law that explicitly protects sexual orientation. And socially, the pressure to conform is immense.
So when people casually say, "Why don't they just come out?" or dismiss the fear as overblown, it shows they don't understand the real weight of that decision in a country where silence is still the price of survival for most LGBTQ+ Koreans.
It's not about being afraid of a few mean comments. It's about risking your entire life's work, your relationships, and your safety.