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you would hate the uke from courtside courtship

Do they have the same trope as this manhwa?

no but the uke is kinda evil like eyan if not worse

nanjo stopped being mr. nice guy

Sorry to say this , both guys have almost same physical build . They can fight eachother. Just cuz Nanjo is a bottom , don't think he is weak. He consented to sex due to blackmail . Otherwise Mokyeon would have got beaten up long ago for sexually assault he did .

Yes that's why i put the term overpowered, because i think if they really fight, Nanjo can't easily overpowered Mokyeon.

I agree…
It’s very disappointing

They literally are saying that he can't be a victim of rape and manipulation cause he is not a twink ,he is beyond 30 and he is rich so how come a "A grown ass Rich Ceo can be manipulated "

If he's a twink and not some ceo, i'm sure these people would 100% in Nanjo's side and be proud of Nanjo for having a spine.

Yep literally but I dont think that too cause take example of kim dan bro got assaulted to the point of him going into depression and do a sucide yet they praise and kiss toes of ML that he "hugged"him once after abuse of 80 chapters AND forget cause the horse face is HOT

Ah, that manhwa. I mean the only thing that is interesting from that manhwa is the art, even the redemption arc is so dissapointing ︶︿︶)

I think these kind of people like to see the uke having a spine, but the moment they find the redemption arc drags on for too long (even if it's so deserve for ML), they would complain.

I have one novel where the ML literally neglect MC and belittle him, even putting someone else on priority for years. But the moment the MC rejected him again and again, some of the comments complaint. For context, the MC accidentally faked his death, and years later met the ML in different identity.

I hope they didn't ended up tgt ??? Tell me it's not trueeee.....

They did end up together after a few more rejection. ML actually explaining his actions but MC kept rejecting him even after that. So it's at least satisfying to read.

Tell me the name i will skip that

After the Stand-in Shou Faked His Death, it's a Chinese novel

Knew this was gonna happen that's why gave 1 star and tucked it away long long ago I saw future imao . That horse face I hate him.

Actually in this manhwa the correct term to what happened is "Sexual abuse / extortion " not Rape . I was using the word rape same as you yesterday . Crimes like rape and SA are sensitive topics , so I went on to learn more about it and learned here in this manhwa rape isn't the correct term. Genuinely the word rape is used sooooo much around BL manhwa readers. It has gotten desensitized to the point that we use it too much .

Yeah that is true too i have gotten very comfortable to throw the term rape here and there but that happened cause people take rape done by most mls as sexual assault not rape （￣へ￣ )like take martial rape people don't acknowledge it CAUSE IT WAS DONE BY HUSBAND SO HOW COME ITS A "RAPE" that mentality ┑(￣Д ￣)┍

Yes that's the exact issue. There are more BL manhwas were Rape actually happens. That's why we are too used this term. However in my experience I have met more ppl who use term Rape though .

Don't even start on marital rape issues. God damn I wanna burn those ppl who take this crime as it's Sth normal , say it's wifely duties , it's your husband. Aghhhhhhh only recently this is started being taken as a genuine crime too & ppl say it's 2026 , we advanced

On curious what is the difference?

Because I remember Nandi saying no and begging him to stop?

Rape is a specific, penetrative crime, while sexual assault is a broad umbrella term covering all forms of non-consensual sexual contact. Under law rape legally requires explicit physical penetration of a body part or object, whereas sexual assault includes non-penetrative acts like groping, flashing, or stalking. Rape is a gender-specific charge where only a man can be prosecuted for attacking a woman, while components of sexual assault can be gender-neutral.

This is according to my country law image a man getting raped and by law it only be considered as "Sexual Assault" and mind u both have different penalties means in my country a A man is never considered rape (╬￣皿￣)凸

Hey don't be a lazy ass now , you got a phone in your hand . Google the difference yourself.

I researched after including their interaction and blackmail he did . Since Nanjo consented to sex due to blackmail . It's not taken as true consent . Rape is when physical force is applied to forcefully penetrate the victim. If their is no physical force applied and not done when other didn't give consent first. It's not taken as Rape. Nanjo willingly agreed to sex and no physical force was applied just mental pressure due to blackmail . So it's not rape. It is sexual abuse / extortion. And this is not from a specific countries law . It is as a international standard. Applied to both man and woman . Just see the difference in jail time, SA most 2 years . But Rape 15-20 years or even life imprisonment in most countries.

Legally, rape is defined by the absence of free and voluntary consent, not just the presence of physical force. Modern legal standards recognize that consent obtained through coercion, threats, or blackmail is not valid consent. Likewise, if someone withdraws consent during sex by saying "no" or "stop," any continued penetration after that point becomes non-consensual and may legally constitute rape. The issue is ongoing, voluntary consent, not whether physical force was used.

I researched after including their interaction and blackmail he did . Since Nanjo consented to sex due to blackmail . It's not taken as true consent . Rape is when physical force is applied to forcefully penetrate the victim. If their is no physical force applied and not done when other didn't give consent first. It's not taken as Rape. Nanjo willingly agreed to sex and no physical force was applied just mental pressure due to blackmail . So it's not rape. It is sexual abuse / extortion. And this is not from a specific countries law . It is as a international standard. Applied to both man and woman . Just see the difference in jail time, SA most 2 years . But Rape 15-20 years or even life imprisonment in most countries.


And for Nanjo saying no and stop , you are probably talking about that asshole licking chapter . He just shy lol , no one willing to get their ass licked willingly. Btw in which yaoi comic , you haven't heard MC saying No and stop after they get tired from ejaculating one time ? man it's a repetitive troop everywhere. ML's got too much energy everywhere.But even then if you have problem and think no and stop only came from Nanjo , I tell you to go and read chapter 24 , the bathroom scene, that day mok said he doesn't wanna have penetrative sex and said No and stop many times even in verge of crying but no Nanjo didn't stop and literally rode him , even kissing to shut mok's mouth . Just Being a previous victim of sexual abuse does not give someone legal permission to sexually assault another person. The toxic relationship they have repeatedly makes them victim and abuser of eachother. Don't bother to reply if you are gonna make excuses to support nanjo's action and show biasness and hypocrisy .

Previous comment wasn't meant for you ok .
And WTF is this law . It needs to be changed the hell Σ( ￣□￣||)

How many different legally is there I am gonna lose my mind ,Researching this topic .
Different results will show up from where you search it , it says . Why different names and jail time of everything is gonna be termed rape then (⊙…⊙ ).

If what you said stands then .. , I tell you to go and read chapter 24 , the bathroom scene, that day mok said he doesn't wanna have penetrative sex and said No and stop many times even in verge of crying but no Nanjo didn't stop and literally rode him , even kissing to shut mok's mouth . Just Being a previous victim of sexual abuse does not give someone legal permission to sexually assault another person. The toxic relationship they have repeatedly makes them victim and abuser of eachother.


What are we even reading then ? . In every freaking manhwas no matter which has bottom saying no and stop everywhere no matter how wholesome the yaoi manhwa is ? Bottoms are always tired after 1 time and say no if slightly over stimulated . If every little pushy thing mL do during sexual interaction is gonna be termed rape . We gotta ban every single one of em instead of shounen ai . God damn sure even in real life this happens.

https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/the_boundary_of_delusion/uu/to_chapter-20/pg-1/. I know it's such a sad thing. I usually don't go into topics like rape because, let's be honest, 90–95% of BLs have rape disguised as "assault" by the ML and then it's just normalized anyway.
Also, you mentioned the first SA scene, but I actually wasn't talking about that. I was referring to Chapter 20. You can go back and check it. After a certain point, Nanjo constantly says "no" and makes it clear he doesn't want to continue. You can even see from Mok's internal monologue that, at that moment, he sees Nanjo as nothing more than an object. I know that changes later and we eventually find out Mok genuinely falls in love with him. I don't even have a problem with him initially seeing Nanjo as just a fuck buddy. My point is that in Chapter 20, after Nanjo repeatedly says no and withdraws his consent, Mok still forcefully continues the penetration. That's the specific scene I was talking about.
I know this is all fiction, and we're literally on an unofficial pirated site arguing about consent and legal definitions. I usually don't even want to get into this because people don't change their minds anyway. I just like arguing and debating with people, that's all. I think your point was valid, and I think I also had a valid point. We can both fuck off our own ways. Anyway, have a good day.

I don't like taking sides of any characters at all . Nobody off the hook for wrongs they did for me either they be victim or abuser . I hate Biasness and hypocrisy. Sunhwa , Mokyeon , Nanjo , all 3 of them turned out to be Rapist/ SA'ers if I am to take on everyone's point of view . I am contemplating why i even read anymore. Yes it's Sad .This went too deep . Real sex ain't that different either . I fear marriage now . I too liked hearing your point of view as well. Have a good day . Gotta go cleanse my mind now .

Np https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/love_at_first_fright/. Here read this one some one recommended me this it's short too good and fluff green flag have good time cleansing ur mind byeeeee

Thanks (^^)

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I actually get why he hates FL in the past live, FL did poison his sister, i mean i would hate my spouse too if they poison my sibling. And ML basically the head of family because his father is sickly (i hate the father), and with his younger siblings, he needs to put his family first. Moreover, the royal family DESPISE his family and the engagement is one of the ways the royal family can shackled his family. So despite the fact that he loves her, he can't make FL his top priority.

That, before he did any of those kidnapping and shits (=・ω・=) fucking hypocrite.

idk what u read twin but this is indeed in the novel

I think i only read up until the dragon flying thing, i though that was the ending because there is no update for a long time. I read the other comment about the novel, and i got confused as hell Σ( ￣□￣||)

maybe, tbh all that's rlly left is the epilogue anyway so

That's my exact concern as well. They cared for Lily as well, so why are they not together with Mr. Delver's visit?

Drop @

Yeah drop @

Guys... I forgot his ig, I will try to search for it

It's @augustsai_

Holy thx babe (^з^)-☆

i love that guy omg