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Couple dynamics like Ian and TJ is so tiresome. the back and forth, the codependency, the toxicity.
Its COMPLETEL AND UTTER BULLSHIT.
the fact that so many people like them together proves so many of you never had a decent and healthy relationship.
while some people can separate fiction from reality. Alot of you cant. even if you dont admit it
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How would you know who can and who cannot? You’re just assuming things because so many love TJ and ship him with Ian. It’s not proof of anything regarding how they feel about their real-life relationships. I love watching messy drama but I’ll be damned if someone tries to pull me into one. One thing doesn’t prove the other.
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… I’m perfectly calm. Are you actually expecting people to come here and pretend you hit the nail on the head by not replying to your statement just because it’s not their life experience? You say “a lot of you” which implies that you actually believe this shxt is for real, so I took the time to give an example that proves the opposite. I think your argument is bullshxt and is meant to make people feel a certain way about themselves just because they enjoy a specific type of character.
Also, If you can have this opinion, obviously many other people who don’t like TJ and fail to understand why anyone would, would give you a thumb up. Doesn’t mean it’s not a stretch.
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Bruh. How did you miss the point completely.
and I stand by what I said. a lot of you cant separate fiction from reality (this OBVIOUSLY doesnt mean everyone)
Also I never once said anything about TJs character. so why the heck are you bringing that up???? I dont like TJ. I think his character is very boring and repetitive. I spoke about the couple dynamic. and if you like it in the story but not in your personal life then good for you, but dont act as if other people can do the same.
Media influences people, its that simple.
I'll say it again. It Doesn't apply to everyone!!!.
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"He's the only family I got"
this in itself is toxic. not sure why people think its sweet romantic and wholesome.
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If you want to say they’re codependent, then say that. However being close to someone who represents the only family you have left isn’t “toxic.” I seriously wish I could explain it to you better, but I really struggle to see how you came to that conclusion.
All I can say is that using “he’s the only family I got” as an example of what you call “toxic” doesn’t make any sense. I really don’t have anything more to say about that.
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I totally agree that it is toxic. Especially when you consider how Tj kept saying that, starting from Ian's mom's death, gaslighting Ian into believing that he has no one else in this life. It conveniently helped Tj to keep Ian with him because Ian was afraid to leave his only family member. So Tj followed Jason's advice -keep them close, but not too close in order not to burn- and that word gave Tj the chance to do exactly that.
Does anyone know how long the break will be before season 2 starts?
mmm could be around 3-6 months
Thanks