If ian was a top. He would be considered as red flag/ even black flag. People who says "the tops are the one who can't keep their hand to themselves" would be singing a different song then. These blind bottom defenders are something else. It is because 90% of bl watchers are women (including me) so they subconsciously considers a bottom with a woman. Hence, the defence. I don't understand, if you think there is nothing wrong if a bottom is a slut, why the same people get upset if it is a top who is a slut? I don't hate ian, to make things clear. I am really happy that he is happy. But it also can't be denied that he was hoping between the two before settling down with one. That is a major red flag (atleast for me).











I want to read this, but can anyone tell if the top or bottom is a slut or manwhore? And the Flag of both.
Well the bottom's ex is abusive and made him think he's nothing but a slut. I'd say the bottom is red and the top is greeen
Oh. Okokkk. Thank you