Genuine question. But why is NO ONE bothered by the fact that the bottom sleeps with a random guys after meeting and sleeping with the top again? It bothers me so much because this is not what I would expect from a story that's advertised as "obsessive bottom"
Oh, there was muuuuuch talk about it when that chapter was updated. But I guess we are all so talkative those comments disapeared long ago (￣∇￣") Personally I think that was Minyoung being as contradictory as ever. I mean, it is completly questionable and in the same time it feels is was better for him to vent like that instead of using some kind of violence
Oh, there was muuuuuch talk about it when that chapter was updated. But I guess we are all so talkative those comments disapeared long ago (￣∇￣") Personally I think that was Minyoung being as contradictor... FlyingGreenCactus
Oh i must have missed that. I understand your point it just made me feel very disappointed and immediately dropped this manhwa. I just can't continue reading it, for me this is not obsession anymore. Like he slept with many before they got into contact again, but after that, just why? Well I guess it's just a personal issue after all haha
Well, this story is grey grey grey and ever greyer. If you need clear moral values and bondaries, this story will never be for you (￣∇￣") Exemples: Minyoung pops out of nowhere with no apology and is very clear he has been stalking for years but Cheol bearly reacts to that. Like the angish it might have caused to his ex wife, did it ever cross his mind? Pretty sure he didn't think on telling her that she was never the target, so she won't worry anymore? Cheol get jealous of a guy standing beside Minyoung while he is himself in the company of his ex wife. An ex wife that he used as a substitutive pilar after he ran from his ex (girl just lost 10y of her life in the mess?). Minyoung use random subsitute guy when he didn't have time to "release" the tention he built between him and Cheol. But is it cheating? Or insincerity? To normal people it might be, but Minyoung isn't exactly normal. Like all other people are tools or NPG except Cheol and himself. Minyoung is borderline sociopath, he can't stand young Cheol not having only him in his life and yet he can "tolerate" Cheol getting married for 10y. And without ever using physical violence against his wife? The letters and flowers seems really nothing compared to what he seems to have been doing when they were young. Contradictory. Can Minyoung emphasize with Cheol? Yes and no? He understand him very well intellectualy, he knew very well when to step back and when to approch to get him. He knew very well how to completly rule over his life before break up. But even 14y after break up he still doesn't really understand why Cheol ran from him. Contradictory as well. How can he understand so much yet so little? Just like he cares so much, yet so little about Cheol's feelings? What I like about the story is that no one is simple and clean. It's much more... subtile and grey. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
It didn't bother me because they weren't officially together. Cheol too would have slept with someone that night when he got drunk, but Minyoung made sure He was the one.
Well, this story is grey grey grey and ever greyer. If you need clear moral values and bondaries, this story will never be for you (￣∇￣")Exemples:Minyoung pops out of nowhere with no apology and is very c... FlyingGreenCactus
I'm fine with grey and don't always need clear values. It's this one and only thing that just destroyed the story for me. Sleeping with someone else when you have the subject of your desire, the one who consumed your thoughts for years in front of you is just so so out of place. Substitute for what exactly, they slept together and continued to do so in a short period. Even if he's a sociopath, I can understand it all but this. This one little detail just shattered it. But I generally hate stories that involve a 3rd person unnecessary. As I said, it's my personal opinion and I totally understand and respect yours and others too. But I still do not agree with it. For me it doesn't and won't ever make sense.
I mean…wasn’t Cheol literally married for like over a decade? Sigh
That's what I'm saying too, but their love for each other is still undeniable. People are complicated.The story clearly shows that people are not black and white.
That's what I'm saying too, but their love for each other is still undeniable. People are complicated.The story clearly shows that people are not black and white. CandyC
That’s what I’m saying it’s been 14 years! And as strange as it may be, you can’t expect both of them to stay pining forever and ever. It’s only realistic to believe that yeah Minyoung had some other relationships, and yeah Cheol probably did at one point have a loving relationship with his wife. If anything doesn’t it make their ‘obsession’ for each other stronger, the fact that despite all this the moment they’re in contact again they’re all over each other?
My theory is that Min used other guys for only submit them, that's why he only top them, because he couldn't do it with Cheol properly ( in sexual and psychological way) And let remember that all of them kind of look like Cheol
Don't let them silence you. I hate that too. It just lessens the yearning. Herein_jing
EXACTLY!! Like I said previously, I understand him sleeping around a lot BEFORE. But after meeting and also spending the night together?? It didn't make sense and for me, it not only lessened but destroyed the whole obsession and yearning stuff. Went to shit FOR ME after this. I say it like this because it's a personal opinion. If it's okay with you then I'm glad. But for me it's just nah
That’s what I’m saying it’s been 14 years! And as strange as it may be, you can’t expect both of them to stay pining forever and ever. It’s only realistic to believe that yeah Minyoung had some other ... Sigh
It's so not the point. Everything they did in their time apart is totally fine and I understand it. But AFTER meeting AND sleeping together again it just didn't make sense. And no, how is it obsession if he just casually sleeps with someone when the subject of his obsession is within arms reach?
Genuine question. But why is NO ONE bothered by the fact that the bottom sleeps with a random guys after meeting and sleeping with the top again? It bothers me so much because this is not what I would expect from a story that's advertised as "obsessive bottom"
wait what chapter did this happen again??
Oh, there was muuuuuch talk about it when that chapter was updated. But I guess we are all so talkative those comments disapeared long ago (￣∇￣")
Personally I think that was Minyoung being as contradictory as ever. I mean, it is completly questionable and in the same time it feels is was better for him to vent like that instead of using some kind of violence
Ch9 I believe
Oh i must have missed that. I understand your point
it just made me feel very disappointed and immediately dropped this manhwa. I just can't continue reading it, for me this is not obsession anymore. Like he slept with many before they got into contact again, but after that, just why? Well I guess it's just a personal issue after all haha
Well, this story is grey grey grey and ever greyer. If you need clear moral values and bondaries, this story will never be for you (￣∇￣")
Exemples:
Minyoung pops out of nowhere with no apology and is very clear he has been stalking for years but Cheol bearly reacts to that. Like the angish it might have caused to his ex wife, did it ever cross his mind? Pretty sure he didn't think on telling her that she was never the target, so she won't worry anymore? Cheol get jealous of a guy standing beside Minyoung while he is himself in the company of his ex wife. An ex wife that he used as a substitutive pilar after he ran from his ex (girl just lost 10y of her life in the mess?).
Minyoung use random subsitute guy when he didn't have time to "release" the tention he built between him and Cheol. But is it cheating? Or insincerity? To normal people it might be, but Minyoung isn't exactly normal. Like all other people are tools or NPG except Cheol and himself.
Minyoung is borderline sociopath, he can't stand young Cheol not having only him in his life and yet he can "tolerate" Cheol getting married for 10y. And without ever using physical violence against his wife? The letters and flowers seems really nothing compared to what he seems to have been doing when they were young. Contradictory.
Can Minyoung emphasize with Cheol? Yes and no? He understand him very well intellectualy, he knew very well when to step back and when to approch to get him. He knew very well how to completly rule over his life before break up. But even 14y after break up he still doesn't really understand why Cheol ran from him. Contradictory as well.
How can he understand so much yet so little? Just like he cares so much, yet so little about Cheol's feelings?
What I like about the story is that no one is simple and clean. It's much more... subtile and grey. (๑•ㅂ•)و✧
It didn't bother me because they weren't officially together. Cheol too would have slept with someone that night when he got drunk, but Minyoung made sure He was the one.
I'm fine with grey and don't always need clear values. It's this one and only thing that just destroyed the story for me. Sleeping with someone else when you have the subject of your desire, the one who consumed your thoughts for years in front of you is just so so out of place.
Substitute for what exactly, they slept together and continued to do so in a short period. Even if he's a sociopath, I can understand it all but this. This one little detail just shattered it. But I generally hate stories that involve a 3rd person unnecessary. As I said, it's my personal opinion and I totally understand and respect yours and others too. But I still do not agree with it. For me it doesn't and won't ever make sense.
I mean…wasn’t Cheol literally married for like over a decade?
That's what I'm saying too, but their love for each other is still undeniable. People are complicated.The story clearly shows that people are not black and white.
That’s what I’m saying it’s been 14 years! And as strange as it may be, you can’t expect both of them to stay pining forever and ever. It’s only realistic to believe that yeah Minyoung had some other relationships, and yeah Cheol probably did at one point have a loving relationship with his wife. If anything doesn’t it make their ‘obsession’ for each other stronger, the fact that despite all this the moment they’re in contact again they’re all over each other?
Cheol hates Minyoung thou he literally ruined his life
He's angry with he, he doesn't point it out, he still loves he just the same, he just doesn't want to admit it to himself because of that.
My theory is that Min used other guys for only submit them, that's why he only top them, because he couldn't do it with Cheol properly ( in sexual and psychological way)
And let remember that all of them kind of look like Cheol
But that's not relevant. In that time the bottom also slept around. I'm talking about AFTER they met again, after the top wasn't married, etc
Don't let them silence you. I hate that too. It just lessens the yearning.
EXACTLY!! Like I said previously, I understand him sleeping around a lot BEFORE. But after meeting and also spending the night together?? It didn't make sense and for me, it not only lessened but destroyed the whole obsession and yearning stuff. Went to shit FOR ME after this. I say it like this because it's a personal opinion. If it's okay with you then I'm glad. But for me it's just nah
It's so not the point. Everything they did in their time apart is totally fine and I understand it. But AFTER meeting AND sleeping together again it just didn't make sense. And no, how is it obsession if he just casually sleeps with someone when the subject of his obsession is within arms reach?