Why is it that people who crave love never receive it? Like the more you reach out to people the more they pull away and even find you annoying. I’m lucky to have my family but connecting with people is so hard. I’ve learned to accept being okay with being alone. I think this is why this story has stuck with me. The guy was so starved for that one shred of kindness that he took him by force. Obviously, in real life we would call the police but as a work of fiction the feelings are portrayed so clearly for me.. I appreciate the author for that.
You know, I grew up with a lot of boy cousins. I always thought it was normal for boys to be pervs. So I didn’t find Rudeus personality particularly awful. Are people mad because of his mental age from his previous life? Just checking. Also, I’m not too hung up about the many wives. Monogamy is more of a social constraint and if Sylphiette agrees then I see no problem. Good for them.
Its funny they are so hung up on his "actual age" when you have a genuine actual psychologist on youtube analyizing and reacting to the series in incredible depth and he quite clearly and directly states that the main character is not a pedophile. Great youtube channel btw highly recommend. Its called psyculturists. While tiring, its still pretty funny to see all these people with pitchforks whining all day and night over problematic media or characters. Only to be in complete shock when professional psychologists disagree with them
Yea it's like people refuse to believe that just having memories of your past life doesn't mean your brain is also as developed as it used to be. He might have those memories, but his brain is still that of a child, basically. And the manga/webtoons that have the MC's brain as developed as an adult make it very clear in their behavior. Rudeus not a pedo, just a perv.
That being said, I still hate him. He's still trash. He's selfish, has main character syndrome, and cheats at the drop of a hat. The terrible stuff he's been through at best partially excuses it. But it's not exactly like he's trying to better himself either. He's content in the way he is.
Yeah i agree, its like calling the mc of 19 lives a pedophile because she has reincarnated 19 times and had a childhood romance with a younger boy, but theres no outrage there. Its just a double standard. I think its totally fair to hate rudeus, thats your opinion. But i disagree that he isnt trying to and hasnt changed himself, it just takes a lot of time and the change isnt a snap of ones fingers and hes suddebly done a 180.its not quick and not steady, but its there. In my opinion lol
I hate that Minjo had to pick between two evils. Yeah, Chu Gio might actually have feelings for him, but it’s too twisted for me to be able to call it love. The sexual harassment was not welcome. Even if Minjo eventually gave in to the dirty talk it still left a bad impression. Overall, sad about the development.









Anyone willing to share a link to the novel? Specifically the birthday chapters ??
omg pls let me know if you find it ty