Where do you live that there are lesbian bars :') there's only a few left in the US. And ditto the others you aren't necessarily gay but I think in my experience being drawn to queer media means you may be queer in some way. I personally am a lesbian who loves bl and yuri but I also know many people who discovered they were asexual through similar ...... reply
Yaoi fetishizing gay men is a percieved problem, not a real one. Yaoi readers aren't only straight girls. In fact, it originally had nothing to do with men, and was created by queer women to bypass gender roles and explore other types of sexuality. The real problem is that, like most other manga genres, nost content is supremely mysogynistic. 7 reply
did total desperation
did live in a bad country
