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As an actually gay guy (and not a fujoshi who only inaccurately knows about it from manga) if your partner is adamantly unwilling to switch or compromise with you, they're a bad partner. If switching is off the table, they should at least compromise, otherwise it's just about what they want.
as a fujo who has gay guy friends i agree. switching shouldn't be a problem.
imo this seme/uke category is misleading and unnecessary.
Well said! But we must remember that these are fantasy stories meant for hetero females and Lord knows a hetero female has no option for switching roles without using some cumbersome and expensive hardware. Even then, the sensations are not there or not the same. This is why switching is so rare in this genre. A hetero chick can't really relate to topping her man. Well, most can't, anyway. Your comment is, never the less, important however. Readers need to know the truth behind the fantasy. Too many read manga in this genre and take it as gospel when the truth is far from what they have read. So far, in fact, it could be another universe altogether.
I was raised by my brother, who is gay, and his many friends and lovers. My first exposure to sex was sex between men. That is my "normal". My perception of sex and relationship dynamics is based on homosexual male sex and relationships. You could say that I am a gay man in a woman's body. LOL Most hetero men find this very strange and intimidating. They don't know how to handle having an intimate relationship with a woman who acts and conducts herself like a gay man. Luckily, I met a man who likes me just the way I am. I swear, my husband would make an awesome bottom if he wasn't so damned straight! LMAO
Is anyone else finding it hard to read? Like not story wise, but the mangaka has crammed so much into the panels I can't actually focus on it all. Maybe it's just me
It reads crazy, which is the point. So I like it
I guess. But to me there's reading crazy, and there's a messy jumble on intangible sentences ╥﹏╥