"just click the space" yall deadass dont get it. yall dont get it. yall excuse anything sangwoo does just bc he's nd. as an nd person god forbid the people i love don't call me out for being inflexible and a hard ass lol. sangwoo can obviously read the text, but he keeps fixating on the tiny grammatical mistakes and like jaeyoung said, he only focuses on jaeyoung's flaws. dude even quit an addiction for him, and he has the gall to ask "do you even love me?" ????? foh lmaooo
I agree with people keep saying hes neurodivergent (I hope that’s the right word) but it’s not even confirmed he is so he can’t just say that and yes I know he leans towards it but still. Honestly I love sangwoo so much but his lover is trying so hard. But I feel like such a hypocrite because I would low-key get irritated if my partner didnt put spaces between words because after that chapter uploaded so many people commented without spaces and I had a stroke reading them plus the spelling mistakes dont fix so it made it worse (it doesn't help that English isnt my first language (/TДT)/ )
i'd get irritated too and english isn't my first language either. but it gets to a point where if you keep pushing and pushing on it you'd just end up being obnoxious. being in a relationship means actually loving someone FOR all the good and the bad. yes, if there's actually a concerning habit that's negatively affecting one another and the relationship in a way that's causing resentment and bitterness, then talk about it and work through it. but this is nothing. in fact, the texting isn't causing resentment at all by itself, its just annoying. what's causing resentment is the constant expectations and pressure on jaeyoung to change everything just to accommodate sangwoo. jaeyoung can relent and fix his texting now, but i'm speaking from experience that it will only lead to more arguments in the future lol
being autistic doesn't mean your partner has to change everything to accommodate you, period. a partnership is a partnership regardless of who/how you are, there's give and take on both your parts, and you have to recognize when a bad habit needs to be fixed bc it has an actual negative effect on your person/the relationship vs when something is just annoying. i don't get why y'all are making passes for sangwoo saying it's bc he's autistic or bc jaeyoung is in fact texting wrong. it doesn't matter!! the point here is that sangwoo establishes the majority of the rules and always expects jaeyoung to be the person to change. it can start with the texting now, who's to say it won't escalate to how he dresses, who he can talk to, what he can do with his own life?
sangwoo has an issue with flexibility and acceptance and he still needs to own up to his bad traits' negative effect on others even when he's autistic. like god knows I've had to be corrected so many times before by the people I've hurt, and I've apologized, changed, and be able to cherish my loved ones and better navigate social situations for it. istg jaeyoung better not have to relent and accommodate sangwoo again bruh









"independence" .... yea you lost me mama. the sister in law is weird too