I want to apologize to you for the blatant fetishizing and stereotyping that is the antithesis of what being an ally should be. I started reading yaoi as a young teen girl that immaturity bled into the way friends and I interpreted gay relationships.
- #3 Uke-Seme: So, I used to think SEX POSITIONS = POWER DYNAMICS. I had set notions about what me...... reply
Having been in a sorta similar position as this girl, this is my advice:
- start of the conversation by expressing exactly what you said in this post. “I’m not sure how to tell you this...I’m afraid of hurting you.” “you are a really important person to me.”
- confirm that you DID think you liked her/ you were reciprocating
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“I meant fifty shades of HAY” like the kind at farms. It’s a parody.
OR When he replies, send something like: “ sorry this was a TikTok challenge” and then talk about memes. He’ll be so confused. reply
