Ameliaxox

I don't know if this will help you,but when something similar happened to me ,I was in distress and I was really sad so I prayed. Some time after my prayer, I saw a video if I remember correctly saying not to cry over losing people from your life, because God considered them not to be good enough for you. I have no one in my life at this moment thqt I can call my friend, if I'm sad I just distract myself with something else or just cry until I feel better and honestly it's better like this, because I was betrayed so many times by fake friends that I'm honestly happy to be alone. I do have some acquaintances. We just say hi when we pass each other, and that’s about it. Don't be scared to be alone, you need to embrace loneliness and eventually some good people will cime in your life. God loves you btw!ヾ(❀╹◡╹)ﾉ~

i also lost a friendship a couple years ago and ofc i know the situations aren’t the same so idk what you’re going through but i can at least share with you my personal experience if it makes you feel any better<3. basically me and this girl were childhood friends up until we went to uni where we had a fight and never talked again. at first i was blaming myself, and sometimes i still think about what i could’ve done to avoid the fight, but its been 3 years now and i realise that some things just happen and you can’t stop them. what helped me a lot was trying to make new friends just to have people to talk to and also distract myself from the situation. it’s not the same but i believe that change is a good thing, at least better than dwelling on the past. i even saw her for the first time since then a few months ago and went up to her to ask how she’s doing and it felt good to be able to have a casual conversation after everything. my point is that no matter what things eventually get better and for now what you can do is talk to someone even if it’s just a random person like me replying to your comment hahah. don’t keep everything to yourself!!. idk if this was helpful feel free to share whatever you want:)) sorry for the long reply lol

You can read this if you ever want to but its kinda long. if you plan to read all of this so don't worry if you don't want to read this!

I had a friend who I really liked and cared for, but I started noticing her lack of interest in me after she slowly chose to borderline drop me for new friends. Once I actually dropped her, she kept trying to come back into my life in any way she could, to the point where she put me in some very awkward and uncomfortable situations with different people.

I know my situation is kind of different from yours because I was the one who dropped my friend. It probably sounds easier since I had the strength to actually let her go myself, but it was still really hard to let go of a long-term friendship. I felt like I lost a part of myself, but I knew where things would go if I kept trying to stay in an unbalanced friendship with her. I cried, hated my decision, and definitely wanted to go back and unconsciously become her doormat again, but I knew I had so much to do with my life that didn't have to include her.

People come and go, and as sad as it sounds, that's just a part of life. I was definitely much better without her, and I eventually managed to find my true best friend! I love my best friend so much, and every day I'm thankful that I didn't waste my time trying to fix a friendship that wasn't going to work out after so many trials that only led to more problems.

My last romantic relationship is more similar to your situation since they were the ones who dropped me this time. Our relationship started through trauma bonding and eventually turned into a toxic situation. We ended up on bad terms after dating for almost two years. I could've ended the relationship earlier, but I didn't want to let him go because I had already invested almost two years of my life into the relationship. The right thing for me to do would've been to end things sooner instead of dragging them out and continuing to hurt myself along the way.

It took me a year to finally forget about him and genuinely move on with my life. Trust me when I say I was **DISTRAUGHT** when he broke up with me. I begged him to stay with me, but deep down, I knew it was never going to work out. I couldn't stop crying for weeks. I was extremely depressed and kept overthinking everything, going through old memories and blaming myself for how I could've done things differently.

But now that I'm older, I realize I wasn't the only one who made mistakes, and he was 100% in the wrong too for treating me the way he did. He was a genuine weirdo too, so that definitely helped me move on from him a little faster, but I also knew I couldn't let my past with him ruin my chances of being happy in life.

I was pretty lonely during my breakup. I literally had no friends at the time, so I had no one to share my feelings with. I had isolated myself for so long just so my ex wouldn't feel insecure about my closeness with other people. I used to believe that I could never live a happy life again, but with time, I learned to let time do its own thing, and now I'm genuinely the happiest I've ever been.

I may still not have that many friends compared to other people, but having even one friend who makes me feel appreciated is enough for me. As much as you may want to solve things now and maybe try to fix things in the near future once you both grow and mature, I honestly think it's best for both of you to let things go and continue living your own lives.

I think both of you should take some time to heal and, if you ever feel ready, give each other closure once you're both mature enough to understand each other's feelings. However, you don't have to do this either. Sometimes, it's just best to leave things in the past and focus on improving yourself.

It's easier said than done, but I promise you, the best medicine for your pain is learning to let things go and move forward. I promise you will find the right people in life who will make you feel better about yourself. There are around 8.3 billion people in this world. You will 100% find the right friend for you someday, but your first best friend should always be yourself. You have to accept that it's okay to be sad, make mistakes, and not have everything figured out.

Just let time decide your path. Life will pass by so quickly that one day you'll look back at your past and realize just how far you've come. Don't let things get to you so quickly. Take the time to let out all of your thoughts and emotions, and focus on your own life.

I really hope sharing my experiences helps you understand things a little bit more and reminds you that you aren't, and won't be, the only person who goes through things like this. Please don't be so harsh on yourself, and find time to make yourself happy. Find a new hobby, talk to your parents, listen to music, or even just take a stroll and admire the beauty of nature. Sometimes, even the simplest things can help.

Always try to look at the bright side of things, even when you struggle to. That mindset has helped me find peace and comfort throughout these past few years. Embrace the loneliness you may face and accept that it isn't always a bad thing. You have no idea how much you’ll miss being alone at times

Love yourself always, and never let your mistakes define or ruin you. Take the time to learn from your mistakes, and don't forget to congratulate yourself for the achievements you'll make in the future. You deserve to be proud of how far you've come. ♡

Thank you so much for this it really helped I started to tear up
You’re so sweet I hope I can become a happier person and find my people
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Thank you so much for this you really helped me <3 I’m hopeful I’ll be able to meet new people . I’m starting to study history which I’ve always wanted to do so I hope it can’t act as a distraction while also being something I can truly enjoy