I understand the appeal of Uyun being so cute and patient with him and their chemistry is often adorable.
I feel sorry for Jinhyeon social anxiety and his other personal problems however considering how pure hearted Uyun is and how genuinely in love he is with him, all this makes what Jinhyeon is doing too cruel and ruins the reading, even if it would end up with Jinhyeon actually falling in love with him.
Truth to be told I think Uyun deserves better than someone using them just to feel less lonely and more socially confident.
Are you on the beginning chapters? I felt like that too when I started reading the story and was about to drop it but I kept reading and trust me, I genuinely believe that those two are meant for each other
Are you on the beginning chapters? I felt like that too when I started reading the story and was about to drop it but I kept reading and trust me, I genuinely believe that those two are meant for each other Patitas2716
Thank you! I'll keep it in consideration and keep reading it with an open mind even if it was a bit triggering for me at the beginning! <3
I feel like Jinhyeong feels very similarly to what you do. They talk about it! I encourage u to keep reading. I think it's a great way to portray that you can be flawed and do bad things and still be worthy of love. There are still lines and boundaries that cannot be crossed but flawed people deserve love too. frankly I think not a ton of people are completely emotionally stable/mature enough to rarely hurt their partners unintentionally. What I mean to say is it's real! I prefer it to the stories where everyone is perfect all the time. But also this isn't one of those toxic partner stories
The reason I wanted to stop reading it is because I actually went through a situation almost identical to that, when someone used me. So it was hard to keep reading because it was so triggering, and it's painful to actually go through something like that in real life. I tried my best to continue reading it, though, because a friend recommended it to me and because I know it's fiction, not my past story.
However, part of me still thinks that in real life, there are certain limits that people, since we all have our flaws, should try their best not to cross, and they should avoid hurting others, especially when they're already hurting. I know hurting others is often inevitable, and people can't be perfect or emotionally mature all the time. But if people work hard enough on themselves, even emotions and flaws can be handled responsibly. There are certain things that cannot be forgiven or tolerated, in order to preserve one's self-respect and dignity. In my opinion, Jinhyeong's behaviour is not acceptable, understandable, or easy to forgive just because he has trauma.
Overall, I really liked Uyun's reaction though, and I'm excited to see what happens next. I was just hoping Unyu would respect himself more, and I'm glad he did! :D
Thank you all for the kind comments! The reason I wanted to stop reading it is because I actually went through a situation almost identical to that, when someone used me. So it was hard to keep reading because ... LilithRubyr
The thing is (and Uyun says it himself later in the comic): Uyun is not a kid, nor this super naive innocent baby boy as many portrayed him (or just plain stupid). He's a grown ass man, who actually reads through all of Jinhyeongs bullshit, and still stays him with bc he sees something good in him and, more importantly, he loves him. He really wouldn't stay with someone who he genuinely believes is evil and wants to cause him harm. I just think that's really important to remember at the end of the day.
The thing is (and Uyun says it himself later in the comic): Uyun is not a kid, nor this super naive innocent baby boy as many portrayed him (or just plain stupid). He's a grown ass man, who actually reads throu... CtCvCc
Conclusion, I just love this comic and it's really fucking stupidly funny, and more nuance than one may think
I understand the appeal of Uyun being so cute and patient with him and their chemistry is often adorable.
I feel sorry for Jinhyeon social anxiety and his other personal problems however considering how pure hearted Uyun is and how genuinely in love he is with him, all this makes what Jinhyeon is doing too cruel and ruins the reading, even if it would end up with Jinhyeon actually falling in love with him.
Truth to be told I think Uyun deserves better than someone using them just to feel less lonely and more socially confident.
Are you on the beginning chapters? I felt like that too when I started reading the story and was about to drop it but I kept reading and trust me, I genuinely believe that those two are meant for each other
Thank you! I'll keep it in consideration and keep reading it with an open mind even if it was a bit triggering for me at the beginning! <3
Have fun reading!
I feel like Jinhyeong feels very similarly to what you do. They talk about it! I encourage u to keep reading. I think it's a great way to portray that you can be flawed and do bad things and still be worthy of love. There are still lines and boundaries that cannot be crossed but flawed people deserve love too. frankly I think not a ton of people are completely emotionally stable/mature enough to rarely hurt their partners unintentionally. What I mean to say is it's real! I prefer it to the stories where everyone is perfect all the time. But also this isn't one of those toxic partner stories
Thank you all for the kind comments!
The reason I wanted to stop reading it is because I actually went through a situation almost identical to that, when someone used me. So it was hard to keep reading because it was so triggering, and it's painful to actually go through something like that in real life. I tried my best to continue reading it, though, because a friend recommended it to me and because I know it's fiction, not my past story.
However, part of me still thinks that in real life, there are certain limits that people, since we all have our flaws, should try their best not to cross, and they should avoid hurting others, especially when they're already hurting. I know hurting others is often inevitable, and people can't be perfect or emotionally mature all the time. But if people work hard enough on themselves, even emotions and flaws can be handled responsibly. There are certain things that cannot be forgiven or tolerated, in order to preserve one's self-respect and dignity. In my opinion, Jinhyeong's behaviour is not acceptable, understandable, or easy to forgive just because he has trauma.
Overall, I really liked Uyun's reaction though, and I'm excited to see what happens next. I was just hoping Unyu would respect himself more, and I'm glad he did! :D
Hope you all have fun reading it too!!
The thing is (and Uyun says it himself later in the comic): Uyun is not a kid, nor this super naive innocent baby boy as many portrayed him (or just plain stupid). He's a grown ass man, who actually reads through all of Jinhyeongs bullshit, and still stays him with bc he sees something good in him and, more importantly, he loves him. He really wouldn't stay with someone who he genuinely believes is evil and wants to cause him harm. I just think that's really important to remember at the end of the day.
Conclusion, I just love this comic and it's really fucking stupidly funny, and more nuance than one may think