Hanabi

Consent isn’t continuous. Saying ‘yes’ a minute ago won’t matter if you say ‘no’ at the moment. That’s the basics when it comes to sexual assault. If you can throw around the argument “just restless/tired” then I feel bad for the people in your life who might be sexual assault victims.

I WONT ENTERTAIN RUDE COMMENTS SINCE LAST TIME I COMMENTED ON THIS WEBSITE SOMEONE WHO AGREED WITH ME WAS APPARENTLY “NOT THINKING” AND WAS “UNABLE TO UNDERSTAND A SIMPLE SENTENCE”. WE ALL GOT OUR OWN OPINIONS AND IDEAS AND THIS IS MINE.

Haesoo was clearly shaking his head but I guess it can’t be considered forced since it wasn’t Joowon doing the deed. Is this the healthy relationship yall hoped for and bragged about? It’s not healthy at all. A comment below said, “Taku represented all the lovey dovey aspects of a relationship that Haesoo wanted but knew he couldn't have with Joowon. This lead to an idealized vision of what the relationship between Taku and Haesoo would be. Now that they are in a relationship Haesoo and even Taku are both realizing that going through the motions of a relationship doesn't automatically create the feeling of love like what Haesoo had for Joowon. Haesoo is coming to realize he didn't just want a lovey dovey relationship, he wanted a lovey dovey relationship with Joowon”(Hye). He is craving for a person he loves, but acting out affection in a relationship does not equal love. Some still argues that JxH was not a from of love but a habit, but I think that Joowon is not a habit, but what formed between them were habits. Lovers form habits all the time, but their mistake was to let that habit be dishonesty. Both Taekyung and Haesoo’s minds are clouded with Joowon. Their relationship has done nothing great so far. Haesoo is still full of uncertainties and taku’s insecurities has been increasing. Sure, it did bring them comfort, but it was fleeting. Taku’s greediness can cause Haesoo to run away from him instead. You can’t cover the cracks of their relationship for too long because it’ll only grow and cause them greater pain. They both need a break. If they want to continue their relationship they need to come forward and face their issues with theirselves before committing. Haesoo’s mom thought that it was Joowon who could stop their relationship, but now that he had let go, Haesoo still remains. It’s now Haesoo’s turn to decide. It’s something that can’t be fixed by anything or anyone but himself. An internal conflict. That’s why TxH isn’t working FOR NOW. No matter how many steps forward Taku takes Haesoo is unwilling to follow. Taekyung is well aware of that but he is desperate that he’ll use the time and chances he gets. If they stay the way they are they’re going to end up in a viscous cycle of toxicity once again. Knowing how much remaining chapters we have Haesoo won’t be receiving a rest from all the problems. He’s gonna have to choose under the pressure of his current relationship(If he lets it get to him). This story isn’t really about the endgame, but Haesoo’s character learning to muster up courage to be able to choose for himself without giving a thought about what others think.