I had to drop this after reading like 50+ chapters because cho dog (whatever the fuck his name is) started pissing me off so much after the uke got pregnant treating him like an infant and being annoying as hell, like it felt weirdddd and I’ve read some pretty bad stuff where I’ve had to been like “ew ew ew” and clicked off but this one just ticked me off (not to mention the people in the comments talking about an amnesia arc omg..) anyway just my opinion lol
I usually hate when seme’s are obsessive and almost babyish with their love for the uke but for some reason this is an exception, I can’t explain it, but Ian dosent piss me off like at all
Maybe because Ian is obsessed with Eunsan but he doesn't really violate his boundaries or doesn't take pleasure in seeing him be stressed out/hurt. He loves him enough to the point where he respects him. Even in the earlier chapters before they started their fling, the moment Eunsan became uncomfortable or asked him to back off, Ian was quick to distance himself (or propose distancing himself) from the man instead of hurting him again.
Lowkey your right ngl, he’s respectful as hell, I also think it might be because he’s younger than Eunsan just gives off a different vibe kinda