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U normal as heck.

Same here girl

I mean it's just the same as guys watching porn and getting hard by it so it's def normal

Definitely normal. We all just vary on preferences.

Yeah youre probably not straight

Really? Im confused. But I dont want to act like boyish. But when it comes to preference wether i'll be on top or the bottom whenever i'll date the same gender I wana be on top. But dont wana act like boy. I wana still put on make up and high heels. Lols really confused.

But that's a stereotype though... just because you prefer to top doesn't mean you have to be masculine? I have seen quite a lot of feminine tops. You can be very much feminine without being a bottom and very much masculine without being a top.

You dont have to be a masc to be a top there's a lot of femme tops

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Well I'd say that you should confront him on the fb thing,and if he lies again,lock him out of your life for sometime. You don't need to hang around someone who doesn't love their family,and any kind of cheating is wrong so feel like its strange to be hurt by it. Also if he lays his hands on you or your kid don't hesitate to call the police. It might seem harsh but I can't say anyone who would ruin their family like deserves any less. Stay with your family for some time until he decides to confess and apologize,don't be afraid to tell them.

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I'm not an expert or anything but I think the most important in a relationship is communication.
If you keep thinking all alone "what if's" you won't go anywhere an just stress yourself unnecessarily.
Take your time to talk about your uneasyness and make him take the time to talk with you.
If you ear each other out you'll be capable to understand each other's point of view.
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I don't know what to tell you except to give you a warning in case you do find him to be cheating.

But before that try and have an honest conversation with him. Anyone won't get offensive if there's nothing wrong. So why would he be angry if there wasn't something there you know?

But in case of the warning I'd like to say that my biological father cheated on my mother for years. She knew and didn't care because she was trying for a divorce (that lasted 6 years, he really dragged it out) He was also abusive but my mother can put up a fight and take a hit. It started just with anger when she questioned him and escalated soon after but her priorities were keeping us safe. This may not be your case, but always be careful. He was cheating so often and my mother knew all of the women he was with more or less. Sad to say she blames herself for the fact she got pregnant with me after the fact, and didn't make him show that he's clean after sleeping around. She got chlamydia and we both almost died. I'm more or less healthy, no thanks to him.

So if you ever work things out, or you have concrete proof he cheated but still want to be together, do make sure he gets checked. All I can offer is this warning. 'Cause when a man cheats there's no telling what kind of person he slept with. Or how that could harm you too. Sorry I couldn't help with anything but a warning to be safe. The world is filled with all kinds of scum. I hope he isn't one of them.

I am not going to tell you to leave your husband or anything drastic. What comes first is of course your children if you have any but then your happiness come. If something is making you unhappy you need to ask yourself why that is and what you can do to work towards becoming hapoy again. If you are feeling lonely then ask yourself why you are lonely. I the same as you am in a long distance realtionship so I totally understand the sadness and depression that can come along with it. It is key to be able to trust your partner whether in a ldr or not. It sounds like he isn’t exactly trustworthy and that is never going to be your fault. I think you’ll have to communicate how you feel towards your husband and explain to he what he will have to to do if he can do anything to gain your trust again. If he is emotionally involved in somebody elses life that to me is worse than if he had a one night stand because that means he gave part of his heart to somebody that isn’t you. Your going to have to make a bunch of tough decisions on where you want your life to go but I think you also need to stop romaticizing your realtionship. He might not be the other person in the rest of your life, and you terminating your relationship with him wont make you unworthy or unwanted. People change and that is okay just remember you aren’t there to make him happy and he isn’t there to make you happy. You guy are togther because you want to walk your own paths together.

I am not going to tell you to leave your husband or anything drastic. What comes first is of course your children if you have any but then your happiness come. If something is making you unhappy you need to ask yourself why that is and what you can do to work towards becoming hapoy again. If you are feeling lonely then ask yourself why you are lonely. I the same as you am in a long distance realtionship so I totally understand the sadness and depression that can come along with it. It is key to be able to trust your partner whether in a ldr or not. It sounds like he isn’t exactly trustworthy and that is never going to be your fault. I think you’ll have to communicate how you feel towards your husband and explain to he what he will have to to do if he can do anything to gain your trust again. If he is emotionally involved in somebody elses life that to me is worse than if he had a one night stand because that means he gave part of his heart to somebody that isn’t you. Your going to have to make a bunch of tough decisions on where you want your life to go but I think you also need to stop romaticizing your realtionship. He might not be the other person in the rest of your life, and you terminating your relationship with him wont make you unworthy or unwanted. People change and that is okay just remember you aren’t there to make him happy and he isn’t there to make you happy. You guy are togther because you want to walk your own paths together.

Since you're married and with a child, you're situation is more complicated than a regular couple that are only dating, so I think you should wait until you have proves of him cheating before making any decisions. But as I'm not married and don't have a child, I can't really give you an advice based on experience I can only imagine how painful it must be for you. So I just wanted to tell you to be strong for your and your child sake I wish you good luck and I hope you will be able to find happiness very soon

Whatever you do, your son must always come first and this definitely change your perspective of the whole idea of your relationship with your husband. That's the problem with family, especially with younger kids. Anyway you're not the only one who feels lonely, he is more vulnerable without any family members. Maybe that's why he uses facebook and still let's you know that.

:< I can see that u really love him. Idk about u nor the guy so it will be really difficult to find a correct/ suitable advice here.

1) Investigate: Imo tho, if I was in ur shoes, i'd let him be for now; u should trust him. Yet since he seems to be acting suspiciously. Find solid evidence; assumptions from pictures and suspicious comments aren't solid. Talk to his friends/family casually and wonder what he is up to; u never know, they might slip up some info.

2) Gently tell ur worries (round 2?): Depending on how close u are with the guy, there is also an option that u tell him ur worries; make sure to tell him gently... like say that u are not blaming him, ur just anxious about ur situation. Don't be over dramatic since he will just take it as u blaming him. Just calmly say how he feels more distant/ cold... ur worried about him, but it feels one-sided... Say sorry (yes do this to show that ur serious) that ur being suspicious of him, since ur just anxious (if he is shouting at u again and not comforting u tho even after being gentle, that feels like a red flag to me... :/ it feels like he is hiding something or he doesn't really care about ur feelings... which is another red flag) U should judge if this would be a good idea; I just thought that is still an option cuz that's what i'll do.

He may be ur first in everything and hoping to be ur last too. However, in reality, u should always consider and expect the end of everything; or else it will be just shock u. Holding on to something or someone when it's already broken/missing, would just feel like u are only asking to suffer.

3) Ask yourselves about the future of ur relationship: If u r only holding onto memories, but in reality, things aren't really working out. U r only suffering; in the end, u might just drown in sorrow and let the relationship die in a very slow manner. It may be overwhelming, but ask urself and ur husband if u r only holding onto this doomed relationship or if ur relationship could be rebuilt. Consider if it is worth it to stay like this (where he is cold and u just want to feel warm; aka onesided). Or maybe ask him how he really thinks and feels about this relationship, then consider the future. Try letting go of ur emotions and think if it is really worth it to stay or to end it.

Overall, these are just my suggestions to u, u are the one who will choose to do any this or not. Whatever ur choice is, just continue on with life. There would always be a reason to everything that happens in life. Hopefully I managed to help or at least calm u down by thinking about this practically from a third perspective. I wish u luck, and hopefully u make a reasonable decision.

Hi. We are in a long distance relationship. He cant hit me or my son.. But if it will happen. Maybe its really the end of everything. Whatever my mind set from the very beginning for him. I will let him go.

Thanks for this message.

Thank you for this warm message. Im also hoping happiness will knock in to my door very soon.
Dont be married early. Live ur life and be happy. As you can see marriage is a very complicated thing. Love ur self first.. I envy someone like you. If i just can go back where everything is just fine, no worries. No responsibilities.

Thank you for the warning. I will consider this message of yours.
Hope your doing fine with your mom.

Sad but true. I thought when we got married i achieved already the happy ending like a romance novel. I set my self worthy for him.
But now everythings change.. Hes not now even looking at me. maybe i overdid it... Time will tell everything. I'll just wait.

Im just like you before. Investigating, saying my worries. And telling him how much i love him. Maybe thats the reason why he feels proud. And give the audacity to cheat on me. Maybe his thinking that i love him so much to the point that even he cheat i will forgive.
Maybe i was wrong there. I give him everything even my soul. But whats wrong with that? I was thinking he is my husband.
Now, i just realized. Maybe i need to love my self too..

I can't blame u for loving ur husband so much since there's nothing wrong with that; it's normal. It may be true that he felt proud because of ur actions, but it's not ur fault that he acted like that since it was his decision to act that way, in the end his actions are his responsibility; he's responsible for letting himself succumb to temptation while thinking that he can be forgiven that easily. If he can't fulfill his role as a proper husband and father, then that isn't ur fault at all.

It is easy to forget about urself when u really love someone, but I agree that u still need to love urself too. U shouldn't be too selfless because of ur husband, especially now that u have a child who needs u in his early life; ur child cannot support himself alone, and it will be more difficult if his mother breaks herself. U should take care and love urself properly, it will be better for ur mental health and for ur son's well-being as well.

No matter where this situation leads to, make sure to consider everything properly before acting; consider all ur alternatives, consequences, and how to deal with each consequences. U are not just doing this for the sake of ur future, but for ur son's future as well. There may surely be regrets, missed opportunities, and mistakes, so make sure to choose wisely and at least try to achieve the outcome with the least negatives. I wish u luck in choosing the best outcome ^^

Unlike females Men have a prostrate which is placed below the bladder. It can be stimulated through the rectum. It acts as a sort of ‘g spot’ you could say. You could probably find articles on it if you wanted to know more about it.

Oh.... So sex between men is really possible.. Thank you for the info.! =)

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Hahaha.. Sorry, im just starting to know those kind of thing. And sometimes it comes to me that I wish I was a man to be able to experience those feelings that I was just reading. I hope there is no something wrong with me.. Hahaha!

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