still can't get over people calling maxi “pathetic” for being traumatized and abused her whole life while getting mad at riftan for literally having an emotional reaction to seeing the person he loves getting beaten is crazy to me
like sorry they didn’t respond with perfectly calm therapist-approved dialogue after years of abuse, neglect, war trauma, inferiority complex, and emotional repression
some of these comments are actually insane people calling maxi “pathetic” for being traumatized and abused her whole life while getting mad at riftan for literally having an emotional reaction to seeing the person he loves getting beaten is crazy to me
like sorry they didn’t respond with perfectly calm therapist-approved dialogue after years of abuse, neglect, war trauma, inferiority complex, and emotional repression maxi’s self-loathing is literally the result of lifelong abuse. that’s how abused people often think. and riftan reacting with anger and panic after witnessing that is one of the most human things ever
the comment section barely passed the humane test honestly. some of yall need to look in the mirror and seriously reevaluate your misogyny and emotional intelligence before calling traumatized female characters “annoying” or “pathetic” for not acting like emotionally healthy modern people with therapy and support systems
everyone, please understand that the author has been SEVERELY ILL. we have already known this due to the multiple hiatus we encountered in the story. we are not sure of their current condition, there are rumors that they might have a comeback this year after recovering.
But the author put in the effort to give us an ending during a time when their health was not so good and unsure. A rushed one, yes. BUT AN ACTUAL ENDING WAS GIVEN TO US FOR CLOSURE. it's very sad to read all these negative comments and the dropping rank without thinking about the author's condition and perspective.
everyone's health is the top priority, no matter what anyone says. imagine, having to work while sick, pushing themselves while their body is giving up on them just because they did not want to leave their work unfinished, and then just having that work bashed and hated on.
kindness is free. it takes little effort to be kind.
the pages got uploaded backwards. just start reading from the last page going to the first, just like a reversed sequence of the pages and you'll all be good!
this is clearly survivors guilt and self blame as a trauma response. she was raped. she is NOT to blame for it and considering the setting of this manga, there is no therapy for her here. i truly wish she heals
their love was so strong that it boosted their literal kingdom to the top and waaaayyyy ahead of the others that game masters/guides had to personally interfere & bug their dialogues to cause a major misunderstanding, but even that didn't close the gap between their rank & the others HA
i just cant remember the title or the author but it's an old yaoi manga, like, more than 5 years ago? i forgot the release date but i read it a long time ago.
plot:
the kouhai (seme) gets invited to gamble/play/get together in a senpai's house. they're like, college? idk high school? they're a group of friends and seme was new to the group. the house/apartment they go to belongs to the uke who is also a part of the friend group. they're just having fun together with the group. then seme falls in love with senpai uke. it's unrequited. uke is actually in a fuckbuddy relationship with one of their friends (guy A) in the group, and uke is in love with that guy A. seme discovers this.
there's this umbrella that guy A gave to uke in the past, and uke tried to give it to seme when it rained and he didn't have any umbrella to use. uke said that seme doesn't need to give it back, but seme gives it back the next day. (seme doesn't know it's from guy A) uke actually was trying to give away the umbrella as a sign for him to give up on guy A because he knows his feelings for A is unrequited, but seme gave it back without knowing anything.
seme tries to proposition uke and makes efforts for them to get closer. seme tries to make uke fall inlove with him instead, but gets Rejected. uke explains the umbrella situation. i think seme broke the umbrella (not sure) to show uke that he's only hurting himself by holding on the anything about A. uke gets angry, and told seme to leave.
they graduate and separated and did not see each other again until they became working adults. uke is an employee of a partner company that will be working with seme.
seme tries to show nonchalance, but is still inlove with uke. seme sees uke receive a message from A even after all this time, asking for uke and A to meet.
seme meets A first and confronts A that he knows uke's feelings for him but doesn't stop their f-buddy relationship together. seme tells A to stop. A says okay. uke shows up and gets between them. uke explains to seme that A is actually already married to someone else at that point. uke wraps up his relationship with A and A accepts the situation.
uke and seme leave. they talk. it rains. seme holds uke under his own umbrella under the rain. they get together.
that's it. i think.
i need help finding this manga pleaseeeee.
everyone, please understand that the author is SEVERELY ILL. we have already known this due to the multiple hiatus we encountered in the story. we don't know their current condition, there are rumors that they might even be gone. but the author put in the effort to give us an ending. a rushed one, yes. BUT AN ACTUAL ENDING WAS GIVEN TO US FOR CLOSURE. it's very sad to read all these negative comments and the dropping rank without thinking about the author's condition and perspective.
everyone's health is the top priority, no matter what anyone says. imagine, having to work while sick, pushing themselves while their body is giving up on them just because they did not want to leave their work unfinished, and then just having that work bashed and hated on.
kindness is free. it takes little effort to be kind.
may cause a "discussion" here, but i do NOT want a backstory for johannes & ludovica. especially Johannes--an abusive man who BOUGHT a CHILD who looks like his first love, GROOMED her to raise his children, and give her even more trauma by LOCKING HER IN A CLOSET. no matter what anyone says, THAT is fcking inexcusable. and ludovica? just knowing her as a narcissist right now is more than enough.
i need the progression of the MAIN STORY because we are literally at the cliff's edge in the plot. what i need to see is the downfall of i-am-holier-than-thou-cardinal-richelieu
we can have the all the backstories that the author/artists wants AT THE END OF THE MAIN STORY. this is dragging unnecessarily ಠ︵ಠ
i knew something kept nagging at the back of my head, their dynamics & character designs match LAN XICHEN & NIE MINGJUE aaaaaAAAAAAAHHHHHHHH *drools*
am i the only one who wants an extra of them being in "return of Superman" or something similar?? they're both national athletes here so they fit the criteria as the parents and we all want yiho moments on-cam
manhwa chapter 97=novel chapter 98
https://novellive.net/book/how-to-get-my-husband-on-my-side/chapter-98
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