this is just a notice that i’ve wanted to say for a while..i read all kinds of comics/manga as long as they have a good plot. this includes bl and gl. but i feel like some people just read bl because it’s gay and i honestly think it’s disgusting how people fetishize gay couples.. i don’t know how to explain it but i know there’s quite a few people who agree with me.
EDIT: since y’all obviously can’t read, i could give less of a shit if you like yaoi, what i’m not okay with is when people FETISHIZE lgbt couples. and if you think that fetishizing members of the lgbt community is okay then you are disgusting. periodt
You say you read all kinds of mangas yet you say it’s disgusting that people enjoy yaoi way too much? Im someone who doesnt like straight mangas I perfer yuri and yaoi but it’s not harming anyone so i dont see it as problem
the term fujoshi also grosses me out and it makes me even more disgusted that people actually use it to describe themselves.. a fujoshi is somebody who fetishizes gay people. please don’t do that shit, it’s the same as fetishizing a certain race and it’s just so disrespectful.
You say you read all kinds of mangas yet you say it’s disgusting that people enjoy yaoi way too much? Im someone who doesnt like straight mangas I perfer yuri and yaoi but it’s not harming anyone so i dont ... vkooksenpia
i love how y’all try and make me look like an asshole, i have to laugh. no where did i say it was disgusting to like yaoi, i said it’s disgusting to fetishize gay people.
i love how y’all try and make me look like an asshole, i have to laugh. no where did i say it was disgusting to like yaoi, i said it’s disgusting to fetishize gay people. littlesugasmiles
Actually not at all im just speeching from my point of view, i dont know why your spreading hate to people who like these it’s just like me saying i bts armys are disgusting because they make a lot of sexual fanfics about bts
Actually not at all im just speeching from my point of view, i dont know why your spreading hate to people who like these it’s just like me saying i bts armys are disgusting because they make a lot of sexual ... vkooksenpia
listen boo, i’m not trying to spread hate to yaoi fans, i’m just saying that the fans that over sexual and fetishize gay people are gross :) just like there are some gross yaoi/yuri fans, there are some gross bts fans too. i’m not saying that all yaoi/yuri fans are gross, i’m simply stating that the people who over sexual use and fetishize all gay people are gross, okay?
I hate bts’ army because they don’t respect other people’s opinions when someone say they hate bts they attack them and harass them if someone say something to bts that moved armys the wrong way the army will tell those people to kill themselves they dont care about others they dont know but they care about bts even though they dont even know bts in a friendship level
If you get to spread your hate then i can toI hate bts’ army because they don’t respect other people’s opinions when someone say they hate bts they attack them and harass them if someone say something to ... vkooksenpia
honey did you not even wait for a reply? go read my previous message and then we can talk.
i personally disagree. honestly i think people shouldnt find gay couples any different than straight couples. people do the same thing with straight people too. but people dont go to straight comics always to find a good plot, they maybe just want the porn, and the same thing can be said about gay comics too. i honestly dont see a difference.
Your right i had to refresh to read it. Society is fucked up already vkooksenpia
i know, and again, i’m not hating against you at all! as a lesbian, i just don’t like when people fetishize gay couples. i am super argumentive so i’m sorry if i came off as rude or aggressive!
it's funny how people are calling you homophobic but actually homophobia in this whole 'fujoshi' community is so underrated. people think if they read gay manga then that means they aren't homophobic but like this whole community is so toxic with their stereotypes of how a gay couple should look like, and pushing heterosexual norms onto gay people, it's so dehumanizing. and i figured it was just plain homophobia because it's so hard for people to accept two men dating, one of them has to resemble a woman for people to be able to accept this. it's really just better to stay away from the topics and stuff, its what i do anyway.
i personally disagree. honestly i think people shouldnt find gay couples any different than straight couples. people do the same thing with straight people too. but people dont go to straight comics always to f... Shuu
i understand what you’re saying, but the same people who fetishize and oversexualize gay couples are also the same people who usually are actually homophobic and only like gay people simply for their pleasure.
it's funny how people are calling you homophobic but actually homophobia in this whole 'fujoshi' community is so underrated. people think if they read gay manga then that means they aren't homophobic but like t... switchbabes
ah thank you! this is exactly what i mean. I completely agree and i probably should’ve made it clearer that this is what i meant
i understand what you’re saying, but the same people who fetishize and oversexualize gay couples are also the same people who usually are actually homophobic and only like gay people simply for their pleasure... littlesugasmiles
i have heard of people who look at gay comics and then when they see it irl it disturbs them. i dont think thats a healthy way of viewing comics so i totally get what youre saying. however it may not be theyre homophobic but rather they have read so many comics that when they suddenly see it irl they arent used to seeing it like that. i just find it immature, mostly young people i find view it that way. （￣へ￣）
i have heard of people who look at gay comics and then when they see it irl it disturbs them. i dont think thats a healthy way of viewing comics so i totally get what youre saying. however it may not be theyre ... Shuu
yes, it really is an unhealthy way of looking at it. the reason i’m calling it out is because i want these kinds of people to learn from their mistakes. i may come off as aggressive but it’s just because of my pent up frustration about this subject
it's funny how people are calling you homophobic but actually homophobia in this whole 'fujoshi' community is so underrated. people think if they read gay manga then that means they aren't homophobic but like t... switchbabes
if you read yaoi it already means you fetishize gay men lmao, its so funny seeing people complaining about people who fetishize gay men when they also read yaoi, like you're not any different boo boo
I read yaoi, because the characters are in love with each other and also because they're fictional so i don't see any harm from it. I don't really ship people irl except if they're in love with each other and it's not like i do it openly tho :3
I read yaoi, because the characters are in love with each other and also because they're fictional so i don't see any harm from it. I don't really ship people irl except if they're in love with each other and i... potatoishere
then you’re not one of the fans i’m talking about! i’m talking about the fans that are OBSESSED with gay couples and who fetishize gay people in manga and then in real life they’re disgustingly homophobic. thank you for being one of the good fans!
if you read yaoi it already means you fetishize gay men lmao, its so funny seeing people complaining about people who fetishize gay men when they also read yaoi, like you're not any different boo boo @Anonymous
sweetheart i think you’re confused..maybe i didn’t word it right, i read all kinds of manga. if it has an interesting plot, then i’ll read it. i don’t read a manga just because it has a gay couple, which is what fans who fetishize gay couples often do
it's funny how people are calling you homophobic but actually homophobia in this whole 'fujoshi' community is so underrated. people think if they read gay manga then that means they aren't homophobic but like t... switchbabes
And it's so odd when I find comments disliking a certain manga because the "uke" was not feminine enough. Just go read a shoujo then. But they dont. Because they like the premise of a "gay" relationship, of two men loving each other, but not when the two men are actually men.
And it's so odd when I find comments disliking a certain manga because the "uke" was not feminine enough. Just go read a shoujo then. But they dont. Because they like the premise of a "gay" relationship, of two... replay~
oh my god, yes! they create unrealistic views of gay couples, like one of them is supposed to be the “man” of the relationship and the other is the “woman” of the relationship, which is why they get upset when the “uke” is too “fem”. like..they’re both men, it’s a gay couple, what were you expecting?
then you’re not one of the fans i’m talking about! i’m talking about the fans that are OBSESSED with gay couples and who fetishize gay people in manga and then in real life they’re disgustingly homophob... littlesugasmiles
I am may be a little off topic but I do not get how someone could love reading yaoi but be homophobic at the same time. I mean I have a childhood friend who is gay. He lure me into reading yaoi. I don’t know but before i never care one whit about him being gay. But now after reading yaoi, somehow I like him more. I have several close friends who are gay, les, bi and I find i can be more related to them. Because there are some mangas i read that have characters or situations that are similar to my friends. So my point is if people can like yaoi, giw can they dislike gay couple because there are many similarities between yaoi abd real situations. Or is this just my personal experience? Thanks in advance
I am may be a little off topic but I do not get how someone could love reading yaoi but be homophobic at the same time. I mean I have a childhood friend who is gay. He lure me into reading yaoi. I don’t know ... Kissjen
ah..i’m kind of bad at explaining things so i hope this makes sense: a lot of the yaoi fans who fetishize gay couples expect them to be like many “ideal” gay couple such as the “uke” being feminine and the “seme” being masculine. they basically act as though there is a “man” of the relationship and a “woman” of the relationship which is pretty disrespectful to actual lgbt couples. the homophobic yaoi fans believe that reading yaoi is “naughty” or whatever and even though they may read yaoi, they aren’t respectful or accepting to actual, real, gay couples. i hope this helps!
ah..i’m kind of bad at explaining things so i hope this makes sense:a lot of the yaoi fans who fetishize gay couples expect them to be like many “ideal” gay couple such as the “uke” being feminine and... littlesugasmiles
Yeah! Thank u so much. I kinda understand now. But one more thing. many say that yaoi is so different from reality but from my own experience, I find they have many similarities. I mean let put aside all the fictional aspects( like super rich,....), from what i read, the way they love each other, their lifestyle or personalities are so much like mine and my friends. So what do people find so unrealistic about yaoi? Some say there is no way that two people could love each other this much like the way it is in mangas or so loyal or never truly get angry at your partner. Is it true? Really thanks for your patience!
Yeah! Thank u so much. I kinda understand now. But one more thing. many say that yaoi is so different from reality but from my own experience, I find they have many similarities. I mean let put aside all the fi... Kissjen
well..there is a lot of yaoi that can be realistic! but there’s also a lot of them where, like i said before, have made the “uke/bottom” feminine and the “seme/top” masculine when in reality, it can be the opposite or they can both be masculine/feminine. i’ve also noticed is that many yaois make it out as though there is always a bottom and top when it reality, many gay couples often switch. because of these certain yaois, people stereotype gay couples to all be like that. that being said, you are right about there also being manga with realistic gay couples! :)
porn is literally fetishizing, everyone has different standards and kinks so if we get turned on by cute and sexy 2D anime dudes fucking then thats just our kink. If you don't like it then so be it, but I just think you're overreacting.
porn is literally fetishizing, everyone has different standards and kinks so if we get turned on by cute and sexy 2D anime dudes fucking then thats just our kink. If you don't like it then so be it, but I just ... SadProtagonist
tbh, you can have whatever opinion. i’ve kind of forgotten about this conversation and i’m not really reading replies anymore so..
have a merry christmas everybody! and happy holidays to those who don’t celebrate christmas!
tbh, you can have whatever opinion. i’ve kind of forgotten about this conversation and i’m not really reading replies anymore so..have a merry christmas everybody! and happy holidays to those who don’t ce... littlesugasmiles
I get your point and I agree so I guess this discussion is settled then. Merry Christmas! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶
this is just a notice that i’ve wanted to say for a while..i read all kinds of comics/manga as long as they have a good plot. this includes bl and gl.
but i feel like some people just read bl because it’s gay and i honestly think it’s disgusting how people fetishize gay couples..
i don’t know how to explain it but i know there’s quite a few people who agree with me.
EDIT: since y’all obviously can’t read, i could give less of a shit if you like yaoi, what i’m not okay with is when people FETISHIZE lgbt couples. and if you think that fetishizing members of the lgbt community is okay then you are disgusting. periodt
You say you read all kinds of mangas yet you say it’s disgusting that people enjoy yaoi way too much? Im someone who doesnt like straight mangas I perfer yuri and yaoi but it’s not harming anyone so i dont see it as problem
You're just homophobic thats all ┗( T﹏T )┛
the term fujoshi also grosses me out and it makes me even more disgusted that people actually use it to describe themselves..
a fujoshi is somebody who fetishizes gay people. please don’t do that shit, it’s the same as fetishizing a certain race and it’s just so disrespectful.
i love how y’all try and make me look like an asshole, i have to laugh. no where did i say it was disgusting to like yaoi, i said it’s disgusting to fetishize gay people.
no sweetie..i just think it’s disrespectful to fetishize members of the lgbt community
Actually not at all im just speeching from my point of view, i dont know why your spreading hate to people who like these it’s just like me saying i bts armys are disgusting because they make a lot of sexual fanfics about bts
listen boo, i’m not trying to spread hate to yaoi fans, i’m just saying that the fans that over sexual and fetishize gay people are gross :)
just like there are some gross yaoi/yuri fans, there are some gross bts fans too. i’m not saying that all yaoi/yuri fans are gross, i’m simply stating that the people who over sexual use and fetishize all gay people are gross, okay?
If you get to spread your hate then i can to
I hate bts’ army because they don’t respect other people’s opinions when someone say they hate bts they attack them and harass them if someone say something to bts that moved armys the wrong way the army will tell those people to kill themselves they dont care about others they dont know but they care about bts even though they dont even know bts in a friendship level
honey did you not even wait for a reply? go read my previous message and then we can talk.
Your right i had to refresh to read it. Society is fucked up already
i personally disagree. honestly i think people shouldnt find gay couples any different than straight couples. people do the same thing with straight people too. but people dont go to straight comics always to find a good plot, they maybe just want the porn, and the same thing can be said about gay comics too. i honestly dont see a difference.
i know, and again, i’m not hating against you at all! as a lesbian, i just don’t like when people fetishize gay couples.
i am super argumentive so i’m sorry if i came off as rude or aggressive!
it's funny how people are calling you homophobic but actually homophobia in this whole 'fujoshi' community is so underrated. people think if they read gay manga then that means they aren't homophobic but like this whole community is so toxic with their stereotypes of how a gay couple should look like, and pushing heterosexual norms onto gay people, it's so dehumanizing. and i figured it was just plain homophobia because it's so hard for people to accept two men dating, one of them has to resemble a woman for people to be able to accept this.
it's really just better to stay away from the topics and stuff, its what i do anyway.
i understand what you’re saying, but the same people who fetishize and oversexualize gay couples are also the same people who usually are actually homophobic and only like gay people simply for their pleasure.
ah thank you! this is exactly what i mean. I completely agree and i probably should’ve made it clearer that this is what i meant
here we go again
not sure what you mean
i have heard of people who look at gay comics and then when they see it irl it disturbs them. i dont think thats a healthy way of viewing comics so i totally get what youre saying. however it may not be theyre homophobic but rather they have read so many comics that when they suddenly see it irl they arent used to seeing it like that. i just find it immature, mostly young people i find view it that way. （￣へ￣）
yes, it really is an unhealthy way of looking at it. the reason i’m calling it out is because i want these kinds of people to learn from their mistakes.
i may come off as aggressive but it’s just because of my pent up frustration about this subject
This is it chief!!!!
exactly, thank you!
if you read yaoi it already means you fetishize gay men lmao, its so funny seeing people complaining about people who fetishize gay men when they also read yaoi, like you're not any different boo boo
I read yaoi, because the characters are in love with each other and also because they're fictional so i don't see any harm from it. I don't really ship people irl except if they're in love with each other and it's not like i do it openly tho :3
then you’re not one of the fans i’m talking about! i’m talking about the fans that are OBSESSED with gay couples and who fetishize gay people in manga and then in real life they’re disgustingly homophobic.
thank you for being one of the good fans!
sweetheart i think you’re confused..maybe i didn’t word it right, i read all kinds of manga. if it has an interesting plot, then i’ll read it. i don’t read a manga just because it has a gay couple, which is what fans who fetishize gay couples often do
Preach
thank youuu
And it's so odd when I find comments disliking a certain manga because the "uke" was not feminine enough. Just go read a shoujo then. But they dont. Because they like the premise of a "gay" relationship, of two men loving each other, but not when the two men are actually men.
oh my god, yes! they create unrealistic views of gay couples, like one of them is supposed to be the “man” of the relationship and the other is the “woman” of the relationship, which is why they get upset when the “uke” is too “fem”.
like..they’re both men, it’s a gay couple, what were you expecting?
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what??
I am may be a little off topic but I do not get how someone could love reading yaoi but be homophobic at the same time. I mean I have a childhood friend who is gay. He lure me into reading yaoi. I don’t know but before i never care one whit about him being gay. But now after reading yaoi, somehow I like him more. I have several close friends who are gay, les, bi and I find i can be more related to them. Because there are some mangas i read that have characters or situations that are similar to my friends. So my point is if people can like yaoi, giw can they dislike gay couple because there are many similarities between yaoi abd real situations. Or is this just my personal experience? Thanks in advance
ah..i’m kind of bad at explaining things so i hope this makes sense:
a lot of the yaoi fans who fetishize gay couples expect them to be like many “ideal” gay couple such as the “uke” being feminine and the “seme” being masculine. they basically act as though there is a “man” of the relationship and a “woman” of the relationship which is pretty disrespectful to actual lgbt couples. the homophobic yaoi fans believe that reading yaoi is “naughty” or whatever and even though they may read yaoi, they aren’t respectful or accepting to actual, real, gay couples.
i hope this helps!
Yeah! Thank u so much. I kinda understand now. But one more thing. many say that yaoi is so different from reality but from my own experience, I find they have many similarities. I mean let put aside all the fictional aspects( like super rich,....), from what i read, the way they love each other, their lifestyle or personalities are so much like mine and my friends. So what do people find so unrealistic about yaoi? Some say there is no way that two people could love each other this much like the way it is in mangas or so loyal or never truly get angry at your partner. Is it true?
Really thanks for your patience!
well..there is a lot of yaoi that can be realistic! but there’s also a lot of them where, like i said before, have made the “uke/bottom” feminine and the “seme/top” masculine when in reality, it can be the opposite or they can both be masculine/feminine. i’ve also noticed is that many yaois make it out as though there is always a bottom and top when it reality, many gay couples often switch.
because of these certain yaois, people stereotype gay couples to all be like that. that being said, you are right about there also being manga with realistic gay couples! :)
porn is literally fetishizing, everyone has different standards and kinks so if we get turned on by cute and sexy 2D anime dudes fucking then thats just our kink. If you don't like it then so be it, but I just think you're overreacting.
tbh, you can have whatever opinion. i’ve kind of forgotten about this conversation and i’m not really reading replies anymore so..
have a merry christmas everybody! and happy holidays to those who don’t celebrate christmas!
I get your point and I agree so I guess this discussion is settled then. Merry Christmas! ٩(๑❛ᴗ❛๑)۶