Genuine question - since female alphas have dicks (they can impregnate any omega), how would she get pregnant if she was in a relationship with a male alpha? I assume not the way male omegas do. Cuz even if she's in a relationship with a male omega, he's the one getting pregnant (she has a dick + male omegas have extremely low chances of getting someone else pregnant)
Some of y'all need to understand that it's okay to express disappointment in a piece of media. Some people were hoping for at least decent bdsm content but not even the safe word was respected. Like, that is the bare minimum. It's fiction, sure, but fiction is allowed to be criticized.
Wdym decent bdsm content? It’s fiction for a reason. Who takes dating advice from a fictional novel? Let alone a fictional bl manwha at best. I don’t know what people expected but if you read manwha’s for a long time, at some point you just reach to the point it is what it is, and enjoy the ride the author worked hard on.
When did I mention taking advice? I'm just saying of someone wants to read X thing, whatever that may be, they'd want to read good quality of it at least sometimes. I've been reading manhwa for a decade. I've read all sorts of things. But just bc something has smut shouldn't automatically mean it's brainless. You learn to expect it, doesn't mean you're not allowed to be disappointed.
Never said it was brainless. If you wanted good content of bdsm, you can read a non-fiction book all about it with real people who engage in bdsm. That is high quality content. I expect fiction to be a made up depiction of real life, not accurate details because once again it is fiction.
Fiction can and should have healthy portrayals sometimes. I feel like that's not a wild take. Sure, it can be a good space to enjoy things that are considered toxic or immoral since no real people are harmed, but it can and indeed does have healthy portrayals of things sometimes, including bdsm. It's not crazy to want some healthy made-up stories. Fiction *can* be a positive made-up depiction of real life too, it doesn't always have to go the negative way. My complaint was not that it's unrealistic, but that it was another negative unrealistic story.
Ohhh I see. Okok, heard ya.
Yeah fr. And I mean BDSM is the rules the couple make not for the whole community and the dom now sub said it was fine then kept going with it. I don’t think it’s as unnatural as people are making it to be. The older man has more experience with manipulation is all. It’s a good psyche read. With splashes of BDSM these people DRA MA TIC
People like you just know how to say things better than I can T-T (you guys just say it so much better, I’m truly terrible with words)
This feels like a pretty realistic portrayal to me. There’s vanilla BDSM, and there’s darker BDSM fiction, and not every BDSM manhwa has to be soft or idealized. This one feels somewhere in the middle to me.
Some sadistic people — whether naturally inclined or experienced — will instinctively try to dominate, especially in intense situations. In this story, they were already too deep into the act by the time the safeword happened. The fictional Dom also claims not to fully understand the implications or etiquette yet, and he’s portrayed as a beginner throughout the story, even shown reading BDSM guides.
From what I’ve seen in real life, some naturally sadistic or rough people do struggle with restraint at first. Stopping immediately, reading reactions properly, and respecting limits are things that often have to be learned, taught, and practiced over time. That seems to be the kind of dynamic this fictional portrayal is going for.
And yes, there are respectful, disciplined, ideal “vanilla” Doms out there too, but self-restraint and attentiveness are learned behaviors and part of maintaining a healthy dynamic. Experienced Doms understand that control also means knowing when to stop. And to this point, this is not fiction about a experienced Dom