Imho it feels illegal bc why do i feel like you're groomed I think it's better to find someone else. Or at least wait until you're 20 or 22 to decide whether you will date him or not
please run, you're gonna hate me now but you'll thank me later.
They're groomers and manipulators and lowkey pedo!!! please don't even think about it. If they're really decent human being they won't court a kid and they'll court someone their age. You have a lot to learn.
please run, you're gonna hate me now but you'll thank me later. They're groomers and manipulators and lowkey pedo!!! please don't even think about it. If they're really decent human being they won't court a ki... PinkLily
yo u don't even know the guy lets not put such heavy accusations on him T_T T_T
please run, you're gonna hate me now but you'll thank me later. They're groomers and manipulators and lowkey pedo!!! please don't even think about it. If they're really decent human being they won't court a ki... PinkLily
I'm saying this as a big sister, I hope you dont find it offensive but if youre gonna push through with it, just don't get yourself pregnant, don't ruin your life, and look at actions not words. Trust me, I've seen friends and family ruin their lives because of relationship theyre not ready for.
I'm sorry but thats how i see guys targeting kids thats barely legal, at 18 srsly? men are dangerous PinkLily
but how do you know he's specifically targeting 18 year olds and didn't just happen to meet one? weirdo, yes. groomer, manipulator, and pedo??? not so much... try not to be too cynical okay? people don't like cynics /lh
wait that's what being groomed is??? I thought it was when an adult takes advantage of a minor and waits for them to be a legal adult? damn, I might need to recheck my vocabulary
but how do you know he's specifically targeting 18 year olds and didn't just happen to meet one? weirdo, yes. groomer, manipulator, and pedo??? not so much... try not to be too cynical okay? people don't like c... VVAGUE
We'll let the kid decide its her relationship anyway. But my warning still stands. And cynic? too bad I'm one hahhaah and I love being disliked by people so sorry.
We'll let the kid decide its her relationship anyway. But my warning still stands. And cynic? too bad I'm one hahhaah and I love being disliked by people so sorry. PinkLily
You don't need to say sorry for being concerned about girlybabe here, men are not good people, it's better to be wary of them
wait that's what being groomed is??? I thought it was when an adult takes advantage of a minor and waits for them to be a legal adult? damn, I might need to recheck my vocabulary VVAGUE
18 and 27 isn't illegal, but legal doesn't mean healthy. Grooming isn't just a minor thing, it's a pattern: someone builds trust, makes you feel special, then slowly isolates you and pushes your boundaries until you depend on them. That can happen at any age. At 18 you usually have less money, independence, and life experience than a 27 year old, and there's often a maturity gap too, since an 18 year old is still figuring out their boundaries while the older person has had almost a decade to figure out how to read people and get what they want. That gap can be used to control the relationship. It's a bigger red flag if things started before they turned 18. A big age gap alone doesn't automatically mean grooming, but ask whether one person holds all the power and whether the other can freely say no or leave
We’re talking on Discord, Scarier considering he dont have any social media Girlyyyybabe
All the more that you need to be alarmed, he's probably hiding something if he doesn't have social media, either he's married or in a relationship, or he doesn't want his flings finding out he's got a new fling. Remember men will say things you want to hear. They will lie in order to get you, especially to get in your pants. So please be careful. Im saying this as a big sis. If he really is serious then look at his actions, ACTIONS.
We'll let the kid decide its her relationship anyway. But my warning still stands. And cynic? too bad I'm one hahhaah and I love being disliked by people so sorry. PinkLily
no ur warning is totally valid!! I just thought the labels might be stretching it, that's all
18 and 27 isn't illegal, but legal doesn't mean healthy. Grooming isn't just a minor thing, it's a pattern: someone builds trust, makes you feel special, then slowly isolates you and pushes your boundaries unti... sunnyfunnyrunnybunny
You don't need to say sorry for being concerned about girlybabe here, men are not good people, it's better to be wary of them MidnightSkatingwithSunaRintaro
I'm pretty sure her apology was sarcastic towards me so it doesn't really count as one
so i met a 27 years old guy and we get along so well
ABSOLUTELY FVCKING NOTTTTTT
RUNNNNNN OML
babes your frontal lobe develops at 25…
Imho it feels illegal bc why do i feel like you're groomed I think it's better to find someone else. Or at least wait until you're 20 or 22 to decide whether you will date him or not
already too late i have already sent something “not nice”
please run, you're gonna hate me now but you'll thank me later.
They're groomers and manipulators and lowkey pedo!!! please don't even think about it. If they're really decent human being they won't court a kid and they'll court someone their age. You have a lot to learn.
Ask for money and then blockhim
I’m just saying they be in their thirties while your in your early twenties what do you think…
what im scared of is he is a hacker and he might track me
Babe you fresh outta the womb and he already balding
Is he a hacker?
That is his job
yo u don't even know the guy lets not put such heavy accusations on him T_T T_T
You gotta deleteyour account atp babygirl
WHATTTTTTTTTTTTTTT HELLO PLEASE WHAT
Are you talking to him on Instagram?? Because that's the easiest app to hack ( I've seen it)
I'm sorry but thats how i see guys targeting kids thats barely legal, at 18 srsly? men are dangerous
I'm saying this as a big sister, I hope you dont find it offensive but if youre gonna push through with it, just don't get yourself pregnant, don't ruin your life, and look at actions not words. Trust me, I've seen friends and family ruin their lives because of relationship theyre not ready for.
but how do you know he's specifically targeting 18 year olds and didn't just happen to meet one? weirdo, yes. groomer, manipulator, and pedo??? not so much... try not to be too cynical okay? people don't like cynics /lh
maturity gap, ur being groomed sis
wait that's what being groomed is??? I thought it was when an adult takes advantage of a minor and waits for them to be a legal adult? damn, I might need to recheck my vocabulary
We’re talking on Discord, Scarier considering he dont have any social media
He dont even have any social media just reddit and discord
We'll let the kid decide its her relationship anyway. But my warning still stands. And cynic? too bad I'm one hahhaah and I love being disliked by people so sorry.
And how old are u ma'am??
You don't need to say sorry for being concerned about girlybabe here, men are not good people, it's better to be wary of them
Discordd?? Ahh just blockhim. Make a strong password for you account tho
18 and 27 isn't illegal, but legal doesn't mean healthy. Grooming isn't just a minor thing, it's a pattern: someone builds trust, makes you feel special, then slowly isolates you and pushes your boundaries until you depend on them. That can happen at any age. At 18 you usually have less money, independence, and life experience than a 27 year old, and there's often a maturity gap too, since an 18 year old is still figuring out their boundaries while the older person has had almost a decade to figure out how to read people and get what they want. That gap can be used to control the relationship. It's a bigger red flag if things started before they turned 18. A big age gap alone doesn't automatically mean grooming, but ask whether one person holds all the power and whether the other can freely say no or leave
All the more that you need to be alarmed, he's probably hiding something if he doesn't have social media, either he's married or in a relationship, or he doesn't want his flings finding out he's got a new fling. Remember men will say things you want to hear. They will lie in order to get you, especially to get in your pants. So please be careful. Im saying this as a big sis. If he really is serious then look at his actions, ACTIONS.
I rather believe a random cockroach than a man THAT TOO on online like please eatcarbonaranoodles
i love these people in comments, how they are pointing the poison out.
they are gonna be like , ''oh, you are mature for your age...'' and something like that, manipulation (⊙…⊙ )
Nooo no no no
no ur warning is totally valid!! I just thought the labels might be stretching it, that's all
ohh okay thank you!
I'm pretty sure her apology was sarcastic towards me so it doesn't really count as one