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I mean, he said all his past girlfriends demanded answers so for them to ask questions means there was no mutual trust in the relationship... he wasn’t doing the best he could... but I haven’t dated so what do I really know??

this entire time he’s been coming on way too strong,,, him n uncle r both complicated characters it’s obvious if they want to get along they have to communicate what’s best for them

You spoke my mind lol I was like - wait Yuyang how did you come to that conclusion? XD

redhead rushing things is not really seem serious. you can't rush things in a relationship. and they burly know each other, if he had a clue on how to date he won't even ask to move in with him out of no where.

I think it depends. Some people rush things and move in together pretty quickly, others don't. I honestly don't think the issue here is Red knowing how to date or not. The problem is that there's no communication between Red and Uncle, and mostly because Uncle doesn't want to talk about serious matters. He never answers Red in a serious way; he takes everything as a joke. He should properly communicate to Red how he (Uncle) sees their relationship (which is as nothing serious) so Red wouldn't be wondering about things.

well, to be honest, I don't blame him for not taking him seriously. and the age gap is huge, you can't really fix that in a day. not even talking about uncle commitment issues, that you can't blame him for having. but at least he let him stay by his side, it a good change for someone you claim do not take it "seriously" he actually thinking very hard on their relationship while redhead like "let's live together" despite we don't know shit about each other.

Well, Uncle himself said (while Red was sleeping) that he wasn't taking that relationship seriously, so... What I was saying is that there's no serious communication, so problems won't be solved regardless of how much time passes. I am not blaming Uncle for not wanting to have a serious relationship - that's his choice and no one has nothing to do with it. I am just saying he should communicate his preferences so the other would know what's going on.

that only proves that he does thinking about it seriously, a man that didn't care about the relationship won't even think about it at all, while Pan does think about it for a long time. at least that how I see it.
someone like Pan that can't let himself admit his own feelings to himself, how do you think he could communicate with someone else?
I think both of them can be blamed for those problems, no one is innocent here since they both humans with problems, Readhead and uncle both have issues. I just hope they get over their issues and try to be better to each other or at least friends at the end of this. but if they break up I won't hate or blame any of them.

We can agree that they are both humans and shouldn't be blamed if there's a break up. Whatever the outcome, I hope this relationship can help both of them grow. In the end, guess that's one of the best things all of us can get from a relationship. Hopefully one day they will communicate well (not only with each other but with whatever person they might meet in the future).

totally agree (⌒▽⌒)

EXACTLY. Ugh. What happened? I can’t bring myself to drop it yet though ;-;

Same... I just hope that this will be addressed later on but honestly, I doubt it... :(

aw no, keep reading! I’m guessing when the doctor sees him cry his perspective will change and he’ll feel bad, or something along those lines, and he’ll end up, like, comforting him? you just have to keep reading. if it does turn out how you think, then just wait until this part of the story is over (which should only be a few more chapters, if I’m correct) then get right back to the main story. again, I’m sorry!

Guys are always horny so they can’t help it ╮(￣▽￣)╭

omg saaaaameee!!

Except that absolutely what she'll do.

Yeah sadly that's also what I think... （/TДT)/

Omg wait which chapter is it? I totally forgot about this (〜￣△￣)〜

Chapter 45 is when he said this but in nearly all the chapters that shows the future he is acting really distant and cold with Jian Yi and doesn't want him to touch him at all and beating him up as soon as he gets too close to him (which he doesn't do anymore in the recent chapters so it's sad to see that he will act like that again in the future...)

honestly I wouldn’t dwell on it if I were you, you have to remember that when zhan zheng xi said “don't really want to see him NOW", the author showed a shot of jian yi grossly digging into his underpants LOL, hence him only saying it cause he was really grossed out at the moment aka the author used for humor considering the context of what was happening. there are many chapters there where you can also see zheng xi being caring, taking care of jian yi whose drunk, worrying he disappeared again when jian yi used his shower etc. hence showing he doesn’t want him actually gone and he does love him but it’s scary to put himself out there again and fully trust.

also the author wrote those chapters before she even had the story fleshed out in her head at the time, she didn’t even know where she was going with the story, if she would continue it etc. it was just a story of comedic gags to her at first with no real plotline. hence why their characters act differently from now, zheng xi was written a bit more tsundere and she clearly changed that along the way when she started taking her own story more seriously and now mo guan shan is the tsundere with more of those characteristics etc.

so zheng xi may act a bit stand offish / occ in those chapters than what he does now but only because she hadn’t know she was going to write their past and write how their characters personality truly was, currently she has clearly fleshed out how she wants her characters to be and act more now. however it also important to note she ignores some key parts in those beginning chapters, for example when jian yi first says he was kidnapped, it’s said in a very humorous way where it’s really hard to believe which ultimately doesn’t make sense considering zheng xi already knew about jian yi nearly getting kidnapped twice so far now that she has written their middle school days — my point in this is to say, there are clearly plot holes and that the author seems to ignore a bit of some of her writing in the past/those chapter cause logically it makes no sense as to why zheng xi wouldn’t believe him. so I wouldn’t be surprised if the author were to ignore more bits of those chapters. plus zheng xi was heartbroken when he left, so it’s natural he’d feel a bit betrayed being left, feeling extremely hurt over it but it’s not something that lasts long. he’s way too in love with jian yi to let that hurt last.

which is also shown where the author draws them in other future chapters that weren’t in the beginning chapter / stages of her writing, such as the chapter specials during christmas or valentine’s day, which are more recent chapters in the recent years that the author takes more seriously. zheng xi and jian yi are hanging out and doing just fine in the future. he’s not ‘cold’ to him, spoils jian yi, even gives him an indirect kiss etc. they’re clearly doing just fine. and those are future chapters. not to mention the author has drawn many future illustrations of them officially together where they are french kissing and being sexually intimate. they’ll be just fine in the end. :)

That's very true. I guess re-reading the beginning of this story kinda made me anxious and I forgot about the most recent "in the future" chapters, I will try to find them again to see them being all lovey-dovey with each other haha
And yeah, that was one thing I was wondering about, if the author was conscious of the differences between how she had first portrayed the characters and how they are acting now and if she decided to just ignore her "first" chapters and continue with how she is picturing the characters now or if the story is going to change and will lead to the characters acting that way with each other without it seeming ooc... I really hope it's the former haha!

Thank you for your long reply, I was really unsure of how I should think about them since they are my favorite pair from this webtoon and your reply really helped me! (≧∀≦)