I don’t remember a lot btw.
The MC and the ML met before but they cut off contact and during that time, the MC became like a dancer or something ? The ML served in the military for some time and got a scar on his face?. Anyways, when they met again the ML hated the MC in the beginning.
I also remember there’s like this one scene (near the end) where the ML marries someone else and the MC sitting and looking at them? I think MC and ML had a happy ending though.
MC is black haired and ML is blonde

i need bl recs with bdsm (no rape, i already read full volume)
https://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/3830598/ the reviews will tell you if it is BDSM based
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Not sure if this qualifies as BDSM:
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yakuza_wo_shibatte_ii_desu_ka/