The only reason uke is setting this boundaries is because they are in a one-sided relationship and Uke doesn’t want to be “a sugar baby” he wants to be equals, if Ahjuicy just asked to be in a relationship the Uke would probably accept anything from him. So dumb. He wants the uke to say he loves him but doesn’t even want to admit he is also interested. ( ̄へ ̄)
plus it also undermines his struggle and everything that he’s out work into up until before he met ahjussi. for him to dismiss what he’s been through as trivial, and even now as he’s getting judgement for something he never asked for of course he is going to feel betrayed. if aj jussi was more honest like you said and communicated with yeomin like a normal person instead of taking care of stuff behind the scenes, this conflict woudkve never happened. but their relationship was never stable to begin with so…
It is about a promising love story about a straight dude coming to terms he is not that straight. Until it isn’t.
It just go down hills after the uke confess to an old Japanese guy he is gay and oogling his “stepson”. Why did they change the focus to the uke being the one impediment to this relationship idk, they just completed erased the seme saying he won’t love a man. Many conversations out of place. They could be completely removed and it wouldn’t matter.








Even tho he is a stalker and was almost ganged raped, the thing that bothered me the most is he didn’t denounce his attackers even though he knows them. Now, some poor and unbeknownst omega will be gang raped and it was totally preventable. Because if they are bold enough to kidnap, threaten to kill and beat a person that knows them, they can do it to a random someone.
this is a bit unfair tho, irl a lot of victims dont pursue legal action against their assailants bc theyre afraid, being threatened, arent believed, etc. this doesnt put the blame of the assailants attacking another person onto the first victim, even if them reporting them could have prevented more attacks. even tho jaeon is an annoying character, he shouldnt be blamed bc someone else chose to continue committing crimes.
He has a share of responsibility. He could prevent it, he has 2 witnesses, and both are willingly to testify, he has a solid case. It isn’t just words against words, he was drugged and beaten.
sorry its been awhile since ive read the novel, but who are his willing witnesses? if ur counting inha, why wouldnt jaeon also report inha for assault too then? this is putting too much faith in the author for doing the right thing when they do not care about assault victims in this story