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so I'm kinda going thro the worst time of my life
-my little sister is in coma
- my parents are getting divorce soon (hopefully)
- and i need to take care of my younger brothers they are kids 11 and 9 and one of them is sick
- my anxiety and social anxiety are getting worst
- my depression that finnaly stoped in 2020 is coming back
- and I'm failing all my classes
- i can't take it any more even tho I'm 21 im tired and so scared and idk what to do
i miss my sister so much and my mental health is getting so bad
please iif any of you has advices tell me
i also have some time in the end of the day like now to relax so please give me recommendations to watch or read or do something relaxing
just help please
this manga is cute! hope things work out as well <3
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ojisama_to_neko/
I'm sorry to hear those thing.. I must br so hard. You're only 21 it's okay to not knowing.. You should consider professional help. Not because you're sick but because therapy can help you to open up and see things clearly.. This will all pass and I hope your sister gets better soon. Dm me if you need a shoulder
I don't have much advice but here are some fluffy/comedic/minimal drama stories that might help you relax. Stay strong <3
Nan Hao & Shang Feng
Lethal Romance
Reiwa Hanamaru Gakuen
SPY x FAMILY
Yuzuki-san chi no Yon Kyoudai
Paperbag-kun is in love
Leveling Up, By Only Eating!
Ummmm... Keep it up... U doing this shows just how caring of an elder u r.... And I advice u to go and do a check up a doc cuz sometimes it may gonna make u loose appetite...
Here, u can read this one...
https://www.mangago.me/read-manga/yuzuki_san_chi_no_yon_kyoudai/
I don't know if my recommendation is worth it or now... But, hope it helps u to relieve stress .... And about homeworks.. U can ask your frndz or some intelligent people here who might gonna help uu....
I'm not a pro at nothing like this but to relax urself you can start by doing new stuff or hobbies. Also don't push yourself to hard and make probably small goals to feel fulfilled like making breakfast or cleaning so you feel like u did something great (which u did) because for u to still be pushing forward already shows u how strong u are.dont ever limit or let things restrain even ur grades there's more then one chance,but I do hope u get better.
(And try writing to urself or talking with people about this)
definitely try reaching out for help, contact a teacher (at your university, i presume) and let them know that your studies are declining because of your home life. theyll definitely make exceptions for you, and even refer you to some counselling where you can get guidance on what to do. i know it seems difficult and you might feel like the world is cursing you, but it will be okay, you can get through this. i believe in you
i want to thank you all for helping me with these kind words
I'll keep doing my best and I'll defntly take all the advices in consideration
i thought about reading it long time ago
guess it's time now
this is so nice from you
I'm trying to take care of my mental health for now since it's expensive to go to therapy and my sister needs doctors and everything
but I'll go there as soon as possible
thank you
this was so helpful i love reading about fluff it makes me more relaxed
i took your advice and did talk to them i also talked to my professors and they were so understanding thank you
i stoped writing long time ago and thought abt getting back since i have so many traumas
it hurts me sometimes to talk to myself but maybe it's the best thing to do
honestly i don't care much abt grades for the moment but i did talk to them jyst in case and they were understanding hope they will help me with assignments and all
I am glad to hear that it helped.... Fighting!!!
ive been thro a very very very fucking shitty day i tried to call my best friend or my cousin(iloveher) an none of them replied i thought they were busy so i didn't pay much attention but i really needed to talk to someone cuz i couldn't take it at all (i can't cry and shed tears for some reasons so i at least need to talk)
i wrote some real sad stuff in my story talking about my dreams and how I've been wanting to kill myself for so long
50 person saw that shit and no one reacted or even asked me what happend and guess what they are all suppose to be my friends/colleagues best friends...
i mean i get that there are some busy people out there but at least one person could ask me what happend
and u know what's worst whenever i share or write some funny shit they all react and say that i made their day or when they have bad days they call me to cry and ask for help so i do
but they did not do anything they just passed WOW
uhm u could at the very least leave a quote or something ?!
anyway if anyone of u guys reading this
if u go thro some shit even if u always help people and listen to them when they need you DO NOT expect so much of them please cuz u may get better but the odds are u will get worst
and please pray for me and those who r in bad place to get better
thank you for reading this and I'm sorry for taking your time
I dont know what you have been through, but i realy hope your life get better.... Im a stranger but im wishing you all the best (づ￣ ³￣)づ
Hi. Want to talk? I’m here. I’d love to hear about your story. Feel free to message me :)
Eek you had a pretty long day... I'm just gonna a say it simple, I really do hope that you feel a little better talking it out, but if you dont, feel free to message me...
tell me all the chapters where i can find the spice.
No
Pervertgo read it and you’ll see some but it’s not even that spicy so I prefer u read it for laughter