Majority of these stories don't have conventional bottoms, some of them are more submissive than others, or fall into more cliches, but overall either the tops or bottoms stray from the typical either visual or personality most bl's have. I hope other people who also have my very specific tastes can enjoy this list! <3
Love: A great FL and ML, an interesting plot, nice art
Hate: Cheating, an annoying ML, an airhead FL, concubines, when the characters are children for like most of the manhwa (I am so impatient), a huge age gap, grooming (sorry but the ones where the FL basically raise the ML are weird to me)
If you have the same taste as me, this is the list for you lmfaoooo (consists of manhwas, manhuas, mangas)
another good website to find these reads if quality is bad: https://bato.to/v3x