SchwiRuoi's Questions (49)

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just someone being a bitch... which is usual for her,, but today my mood is kinda bad, so it's get to my nerve.... well fake friend is everywhere, so I will try to cope with it (〜￣△￣)〜

I hope you're feeling better now. Life is too short, too precious to waste your time (and energy) with a fake friend.
Many hugs (づ￣ ³￣)づ

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thank you so much (●'◡'●)ﾉ

You're welcome!

I'd like to. Well try. I'd like to try. Hope the spot is still available ^^ x

i'd like to collaborate with you!! (〜￣△￣)〜

If tanisha will help ill help too Y(^_^)Y

haha ok.. I will close the offer hear.. thx guys

Ugh, that's very asshole-ish of them!!!!!! Not only did they leave you out but they lied to you as well?!?!?!?!?!? What kind of friends are they exactly!??!? (╬Ò_Ó)

it's quite normal tbh to feel left out with your friends, I've been through that and I just simply understand the situation. You should probably talk to them personally so as not to ruin your friendship, if they're really your friends they would eventually understand you (▰˘◡˘▰)

i know right... just remembering it make my heart ache... but still I think it just a small prob but... arggh... I just can't accept it

You know..did you try confronting them about it ? Maybe they just wanted time together or for some reason or another ? Ommunicate and ask them about it before judging them or else misuderstandings will grow on their own

well actually I enter the college late.. so I'm 3years old older than them, and even though I always been a reserved person ( you know with the anime, manga stuff) we usually plan together if we want to go out for eat... and if talking about talk.. there is 2 friend right I will just name they A & B.. this A person really have an annoying attitude.. If I ask her about this thing, she probably will say this - ' I thought that you don't have money, so it will be kind a waste of time to ask since you will just say no right'- well something along that line.. but I think asking even if I say no is still better than lying and left me out... and if i do the same thing to her (A) she will directly ask me and said I was rude to not ask her... ( you know that attitude - feel like she is the one who right and everyone else just wrong... I mean I will just feel more offense about it, instead feeling better.... and I'm the older one so i should be understanding from their perspective

I don't think that they want time together because... they are always together and I more reserved so I didn't bother them much but if they are planning to go eat or go to mall, the will ask me too ... I mean it didn't bother me that they want to eat together without me and even go to the mall by themselves also doesn't make me mad.. but why they have to lie to me? If I'm not asking them about it and they just go there by themselves, it will be find for me but the fact they lie to me really hurt me... I always with manga, fanfic and anime, so I rarely with them... so I think I didn't bother too much... urghh I just can't explain my feeling correctly.. （/TДT)/

now I understand your sentiments clearly. I also had a friend like that, she's hard headed and only listens to herself just like your friend (A). So as not to make an argument with her, i just eventually ignore her rants, yeah it may seem like you're kind of defeated; you didn't explained your side to her but at least the problem won't get any bigger. I sometimes feel frustrated with her attitude but I eventually accepted her character as time passed (though it's not pleasant) something like that. It depends on your part onto how you will handle the situation though, it's either you ignore it or confront them personally cause imo that's the only option you have..

I don't think you are overreacting, friends shouldn't do that.
My old bestfriends did somethings like that too. And that's why we are not bestfriends anymore.（￣へ￣）

yup.. I guess so.. but to make a matter worse.. that weekend after the incident, she stay at my home for 4 days.. cause holidays and her house is far away... and it already decided before the incident happen... so i just force myself to accept it and think about it rationally... I mean it will be so immature if I'm sulking about that issues right... btw thx for replying and talk to me (づ￣ ³￣)づ

It feel worse right.. but they are just close friend, I mean we meet at nov2014... so I don't want to assume that we are just best friend cause we live together for college... I have my best friend already... it's been 10 years I friend with her but after we get older we just so busy to get in contact with each other and I spend a lot of my time with this close friend, that is why it kinda hurt when they doing this to me while I really considerate their feeling and ask them every time I plan something

haha, that must be awkward for you. I think you don't have to take it too personally, there's no perfect friendship so if you can patch things right do it correctly, so cheer up okay? No problem, I like talking with my co manga lover (●'◡'●)ﾉ

yup.. really awkward but just for me.. it's not like she know that I have this problem right, haha so I just indulge myself with yaoi (●￣(ｴ)￣●) and just forget about her existent... It will be a good thing if all the manga lover live in the same town.. i don't think I will be a reserved person anymore.. Thx again (●'◡'●)ﾉ

thats really messed up. it makes me sick they lied to you and made you go somewhere alone. might be best to think about making other friends that value time with you. and can be honest with you. i hope you can live someplace where you are valued. i know its not easy to just up and move sadly.

if there is a place like that, I really wanna live there.. you where politics doesn't involve and we can live in peace and just watch anime and read manga everyday.. haha

But still there are younger than me so I just have to accept it.. but as time goes on the history will repeat itself and maybe they will experience the same thing and change their attitude... (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Oh okay well you say life us a journey where you'll meet all kinds of people so if these 2 turn out to really not appreciate you then move on since i'm sure you'll meet better ones and who knows maybe these can answer your question better so instead of being mad abiut it go ahead and ask them why they lied ...and after hearing the reason the choice is yours to make

I think you really really shouldd talk to your friend(s). It could just be that your friend is not asking you and lying about it to you to not bother you since you do your own thing, and not to hurt you (doesnt justify for lying, but still..). Or she could really be a bad friend, I dont know. But as someone you call a close friend, i think you can talk about that to her, and get rid of the misunderstanding, or get rid of her. Because you deserve better treatement, and you can get that better treatement to surround yourself with people who will do that.

yeah, I would like to get to the bottom of it also... but yeah it happen like almost a month ago if you add with this week .. so I thought it would be really petty of me to keep hanging on this issues... add with her attitude it will be really annoying but I think I can talk with the other one since she kinda honest if I ask directly and not annoying as the other one.. thx

hehe I like that 'get rid of the misunderstanding or get rid of her'... well it was hard for me to make friend actually cause i'm not the type to speak to just anyone and i tend to be alone... and this person is kinda bossy you know.. I know i tell them that i didn't mind she treat me like we are friend same age but still I'm a bit older so there is a thing that she has to respect about me.. but sometime she got to comfortable and be rude to me... and I not the type to get angry directly... so it just hurt sometime with me surround with younger person and having no one else to talk too... but still if it get to bothersome I might as well just ask her about it right.. instead wasting my time and energy to think about this issue... she doesn't even deserve my attention (╬￣皿￣)凸

just wanted to say, i have a similar personality to you. i eventually had to learn how to put people in their place. some people will walk all over you if you let them. it sucks but it was something i learned i had to do.

yeah, as you got older, you need to learn that.. there is one time I got angry about something... and the other person just got quiet and say sorry- well it did feel good for some reason when people scared of you but i just don't want to make it my habit to scold people every time they are in the wrong and I just don't want to get selfish more and make people hate me.. but still I would like if they respect me more... (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

i completely understand. its a struggle to know when to stand up for yourself. dont get me wrong, im not rude to everyone. its always good to try being kind, i always try first to be honest and express when something is bothering me. its hard, but i force myself. its only when people dont respond to kindness, or are rude to me, thats when i stand up for myself.

it was tsukishima!! haha.. I keep thinking who is kirishima for a second just now... because I was obsessing with finder series.. that is why I write a wrong name,, it kinda similiar (￣∇￣")

Have you read dj by kuro-sensei??

I ship them too!
I love 'deep throat'(*¯︶¯*)

yes.. I already read it,, it was delicious, haha ლ(´ڡ`ლ) , always get a hard on

that was good too... their dj is not many, I'm frustrated now... urghh ┗( T﹏T )┛

I REALLY more to Tsukkiyama than Kurotsukki.. But if you need Kurotsukki DJ, they have a lot at myreadingmanga.info. you are lucky there are more DJ MANGA about Kurotsukki than tsukkiyama.

Just go to myreadingmanga.info and search HAIKYUU. Most of their HQ DJ are about kurotsukki

actually, I always reading their dj there.. but it kinda not enough for me.. heheh.. I think I read all kurotsukki dj at myreadingmanga.. but thx for replying (⌒▽⌒)

I like lazy lazy night. Both of them are so sweettttt.. ⁄(⁄ ⁄·⁄ω⁄·⁄ ⁄)⁄

yes it is... I like it too (๑•ㅂ•)و✧

Have you heard the fantastic duo version with kyu hyun???

yup.. yesterday I watch fantastic duo ep until ep 5.. the collab with kyu hyun is good... but I like immortal song version better by yoon minsu & shin yongjae..

*frustration

maybe in the whisper app.

thx honey,,, I will try it :)