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Their issue with their father is that he fathered children and then ended his marriage to come out as gay, not that he's gay

Yea but still instead of facing the real issue they hurt their father instead! I know they’re just kids but now that they grew up they should’ve man up and face their mistakes!

They don’t have any mistakes, every kid gets upset when parents get divorced because it feels like your family is ruined. They even said they only choose to stay with their dad to give their mom a chance to start over. They’re also still kids, I think the older bro is 18 and Ken is 17. It’s the father’s responsibility to sit his kids down and explain what happened from his perspective.

I feel like he didn't explain to them what was going on. So they held resentment towards him, because in their eyes the dad's bf is the reason why their family broke apart.

He most definitely didn’t explain the situation, the most common thing a parent says to a child is that they wouldn’t understand. (So annoying) Right, any child will be mad at the parent and their new partner after a divorce. How is a child(ren) supposed to just accept it especially when left in the dark about a situation that clearly affects them.

If you re-read the early chapters (so many have to since they forgot lol) the kids talk about choosing their dad so their mom could start over. Sure they bring up being gay negatively but they’re more hurt that their dad left their mom. Depending on how the artist goes, the kids could still have hate towards him for how he dealt with the situation. I don’t think it went into detail but the mom could’ve accepted that her husband is gay and wanted the divorce.
PARENTS NEED TO EXPLAIN!!!!

But the father wants to apologize no? He’s ready to sit with his children and explain but the kids won’t let him! I know it’s hard on them I get that and all this was their parents selfishness but still I thought being in his shoes should’ve made them see how coming out isn't something simple specially with the older son since he’s in same situation as them! HOWEVER finding out your partner is gay isn’t something you’d accept easily you know!!

When has he ever wanted to apologize or sit down with his kids?? If anything the lover was making more effort than the dad plus the kids already knew he was gay because of the divorce, they were children when it happened and are now teenagers. He literally could’ve explained the situation to them better, he’s the adult AND parent….its his responsibility to make the first move to close up the wounds.