DemonBunny

here's a list for childhood friends to lovers:
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/46664/

sorry can't help with your main problem at the moment
(￣∇￣") but you basically mean, "mc falling for wingman" and similar, or is it just plain love triangle?

Thank you! But yes mc falling for wingman. I knew there was a better way to explain it . I would take some recommendations for love triangle it is pretty close to the same if you can give me some. Thank you you're so helpful.

oof idk why but i'm also having a hard time for stories like "mc x wingman" though i did try finding similar ones.
i feel like you've already read most (if not all) of these but here:

/"wingman but not really?"/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/suimenka/
-very twisted
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/erito_937_wa_yoru_ni_oborete/
-it's still ongoing so there's no verdict yet lol
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/sakaku_opera/
-threesome
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mukizu_ja_irarenee/
-reversible, cheating
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kasa_no_shita_futari/
-i think this is the closest or nah?
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/koi_no_tsumeato/
-cheating

/love triangle/
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/from_points_of_three/?av=2
-threesome, but mc eventually chose one; also kinda twisted
-mc didn't end up with the wingman
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/choco_strawberry_vanilla/
-threesome, twisted polygamous relationship
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/hachi_kuju_siam/
-had potential to be polygamous but didn't; this is a spinoff, and also has a sequel
-beware of bestiality though
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/last_paradise/
-a bit tragic... kinda?
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/immoral_sandwich/
-threesome, sandwich, omegaverse, rape
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/nure_nezumi_tachi_no_koi/
-ntr, super twisted
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/mamanaranai_mon_de/
-kinda similar with how "from points of three" turned out, but not really?
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/amai_sokubaku/
-incest, stepbros

oof got tired halfway through and just decided to check the general tags lol sry
there's boatloads here, but has non-bl included:
http://www.mangago.me/tag/love+triangle/

i also found a list for..
/love rivals/
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/305506/
/love triangle/
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/26518/

oh i just found a good list + with descripts!
http://www.mangago.me/home/mangalist/85007/

Thank you god/goddess!! You're are the most helpful person in my life. I have a week off work and I'm going read like crazy. So excited.

no problem! always happy to help (づ￣ ³￣)づ

dunno if they are already mentioned (sorry then) but I also wanna try :)
mc in love with (straight) best friend- no chance, then comfort sex with neigbhour
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kocchi_muite_ai/
-this is an up and down, not comedy or light reading but also not too dark (like harada). mc in love wiht bf but bf seems like he doesnt care, so he search for comfort, kinda fall for the substitude but bf comes back....
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/doronuma/
oh I like this one: mc is the seme... while he is in love with another dude he ends up in bed wiht childhood buddie (who is actually in love with seme)
http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kiss_mo_dekinakatta/
-first story here (thouching) mhhh hard to make a sum. its short so just read it (though, not the mc is the one who is in love with another person) http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/ki_ga_au_to_iu_koto_wa/
oh I love this one! so cute! we have two buddies, one realize that another dude is always looking at his friend- he wants to help the dude who is starring but it turns out kinda diffrent XD http://www.mangago.me/read-manga/kanjou_spectrum_yoneda_kou/

If you don't mind drama CD, there's Chiru Chiru Michiru. This one's from the POV of the wingman.

https://concretepistols.livejournal.com/tag/trans%3A%20chiru%20chiru%20michiru

Summary: Having lost his parents at a young age, Kisaragi Harumizu is a salaryman living alone, surrounded by toys from his father, and in particular, Kinpira, a toy robot dog which he calls his one and only family. At work, he is secretly in love with his subordinate, Satomi Kouichi. One day, he discovers that Satomi is gay and ends up sleeping with him. However Satomi has no recollection of the night due to his drunken state. Suppressing his hurt, Kisaragi lies and says that he was the one who initiated the sex and furthermore, agrees to help Satomi woo his love interest...

I can message a link if you're at a loss where to get drama CDs.

I have a quite close friend who is 3 years older than me in univ. I dont think its weird. Quite surprised when i knew her real age. But then again im not bothered by it.

I dont know abt being work force. But in my major, portfolio is more important than ur grades nor age to the company, imo.

Hey, DemonBunny,

I went to university right out of high school and got a degree in Kinesiology. I fumbled at becoming a physical therapist because of the further cost of school and other factors. Since, I have worked retail for five years, tried being a CNA for over a year, and am now thinking of returning to full time studentship. I have taken a few classes to get my brain "back on" at community college and thankfully, it isn't weird at all to see people still older than myself. Plenty of running start high schoolers but the gap isn't so wide you wouldn't fit in with the younger crowd.

I believe, at least in the USA, high schools pushed too hard for students to go into college without knowledge of what they wanted to do "for the rest of their life" because the cost would be such. I do want to stay in the medical field and with recent discovery that my body has a fear of needles (my mind doesn't even as my body says to shut down,) I feel nursing isn't appropriate. So, back to PT.

As along as you know what you want to study and achieve, I wouldn't worry about the other students' age in the slightest. You are there to better yourself and if you make some awesome friends along the way, they won't care how old you are.

I started college right out of high school, but took a break of several years due to family/life circumstances, and didn't finish up my degree until I was almost 29. It's all good.

nope its not weird at all! this is a pov from a 19 yrs old college student. i didnt have that kind of concern but i do have friends in college who are 4-5 years older than me and its all good! they are doing fine.

Nah! In my 6 years in college I've encountered a lot of student who is much older than me. At first it is weird but then later on I just got use to it. Its like it is normal to be sorrounded by older people or rather matured people in the university, so yah! You better go for it and not feel uncomfortable because of ur age.

You'll be fine. Your CV will reflect that you've been working in retail before studying and graduating. A red flag for head hunters would be gaps in your CV where you don't put any work/study/training experience, instead of focusing on the age.

You’re gonna be fine. And 22 is not old. Get a degree specially when you have the oppurtunity and the means (when others cant and dont). Dont worry too much because circumstances are different now.