Genders other than male and female have existed for thousands of years in many different societies. So I don't see the point in questioning it now? 3 reply
Yes of course at least once daily usually! I don't understand people who don't tbh unless you only read softcore stuff. But like doujins that are pretty much just sex or something like Ogeretsu Tanaka where it has a good story but also long detailed sex scenes? How do you not get turned on by that (aside from being asexual or such, that's fine)? An...... 5 reply
I prefer Manga. I don't have a whole lot of free time and I have trouble getting invested in long stories, so I prefer the short, sweet and sexy style of manga. BL is more like an indulgence for me, I go to it when I don't want to think to hard or be confronted with anything complex or unexpected (or when I'm horny lol). So I don't mind if the plot...... reply
I have one major turn off and it's when there's something about the uke being like a woman/girl during sex. Sometimes it's the seme saying it to the uke something like "You look like a woman" or "I'll make you feel like a woman". Or the uke will think something like "I'm becoming like a girl." Oh and sometimes just to be super duper gross they'll s...... 2 reply
So I'm queer as fuck and agender so probably not the best person to answer this, but I was afab and I've also read a lot about the history of BL (I prefer this term over yaoi, because it's the term used in japan and yaoi has a negative connotation). So I'm very familiar with the discourse around BL.
1) Why do a lot of fujoshis wish that they were...... 5 reply