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CLOCK ITTT, And then I don’t understand why they wanna bring the child back especially if the father never cared for the kid??? Why put you and your child through that willingly.

So, you mean a mother can't be a single mother. She adores her son and wants to live with him peacefully just because her husband doesn't care about her and the child. It doesn't mean she will give up on the only family she has which is HER CHILD.

A mother can be a single mother? In this circumstance I just don’t understand why she’d go through all this simply for said child that will have to endure hardships. I do not understand wanting to continue to have a child with a man whom does not care about not only you but also the child. We see he purposely hurts her with his words and actions. We all know that when a female lead says she’s running away after a couple of years to live peacefully, that never happens. The ML essentially disregards the child and in the first life misses his birthday party. (Novel spoilers ahead)



Their child remembers his past life and remembers his father not attending his birthday party. Not only this but ML attempted to kill the child in a fit rage (after murdering the staff) when finding FL dead. When he snaps back he stops but then proceeded to kill himself, clinging to FL body in front of the child. We see in the present this causes the child to be scared of ML…along with the fact that he was not a good man to his mother.

Also…I don’t think her not wanting her and her child to suffer at the hands of a man = giving up on her child.

That is a very different way of interpreting what we're saying. A mother can be a single mother but in this scenario she can't because the Duke is the sole reason she can never have a life of freedom with her son. Nobody's saying she can't be because she can, anybody who wants to be a mother can be as long as they know what they're doing and have the physical and emotional needs and resources to be one to support their child/children that they wanted.

What we're saying is her son is innocent in all of this and is just being used as means to an end to satisfy her feelings of being a mother. She should've had taken a moment to think about her past life, ask herself questions if she could do it. If she could give birth to her son and run away from the ML and never be found again. She'd willingly go through all that torture just to get her child back when it also affects the child psychologically even in the womb.

In the end, the child is the innocent one that is caught between the crossfire of the parents and their decision making. Just because it was her only family in the previous life doesn't mean she can't make new ones in her new life. If you were in an abusive relationship and had a child but was reborn to the past where you could restart again, would you willingly go through that abusive relationship again just to have your child knowing you AND the child would never be able to escape? Because I wouldn't. For my sake and the child's.

Yours and mine views are not aligned in this, if I had a child and had to raise them without my husband support, I would 100% do it for millions of times. You are saying the fmc has choice to not to marry husband and should have created family with someone else. Are you being for real because all her life she was a puppet of her mother, the only family she had is her son and no one, she knew her husband would not love her but still raised her son and adore him and would have continued it if she lived.
Knowing that the marriage is abusive and still bringing the child is wrong in many levels but are we forgetting that SHE ALREADY HAD A CHILD whom she carried for 9 months and raised for a year.
If I was on her place I would have done same because imagine living a life without YOUR CHILD whom you adore .
And also if she has child with someone else that would not be her first child, are we forgetting it.
That are your views about not having a child abusive marriage but being a loving and responsible parent means going beyond for your child. No loving parent can imagine a world without their child ....
I support women not having child heck yah but I also support women going beyond for child. Let us not criticize a loving mother...
Your thoughts might be right for you but mine are different from you and thats okay because we are suppose to think different from each other ...♡

I re-read my reply and found it bit rude, I am sorry for that if it sounds rude...

It's fine, honestly the debate itself was a sight to see knowing how other people have different views on the topic. Everyone has different views, especially when it comes from us mothers and not everyone will have the same views as each other. It's like the sides of a coin. In the end, us mothers are different in their own ways but in the end we still think about our children despite the circumstances and thinks of what would be best for them