You know, when the world is just beginning and the number of people is still so very few, I bet they were also fucking their mothers, their fathers, siblings and whatnot. I'm not saying there's nothing wrong with incest, Maybe there is, maybe there isn't.
Coming from such a family myself (father's side) When you grow up as this is the norm, it does not feel strange. I had a horrible time trying to become normal afterwards, and telling my then boyfriend (now husband of 43 years) was one of the hardest things I ever did, but I knew we couldn't go forward if I didn't reveal my past. I expected him to be filled with disgust and revulsion but I instead received acceptance and love. I was a child who had no control over my life, he said, and he told me that he would fill up the darkness with his love. And he did. If anyone ever breaks down and tells you that they had been molested, etc...just give them unconditional love and support. That is the most important thing we need to heal. Sorry, I got a little carried away there, but I felt you should know that there are people out there with genuine hearts who don't judge us for things we couldn't help. I hope this helps you and others to understand. Thank you.
Coming from such a family myself (father's side) When you grow up as this is the norm, it does not feel strange. I had a horrible time trying to become normal afterwards, and telling my then boyfriend (now hus... freidanielsen
I'm not really judging.. I just detest the people who do this to their relatives(or to anyone without their consent) just because how they can't control their urges/desires And make traumatic memories for innocent people(like they did to you/character in the manga) It's just making me so damn furious.This is so wrong and I want you to understand that I'm not judging the victims..I'd be supportive if something like this were to happen to someone.I'm sorry for the things you lived through..I'm glad you found someone who accepts you with your everything.
I'm not really judging.. I just detest the people who do this to their relatives(or to anyone without their consent) just because how they can't control their urges/desires And make traumatic memories for innoc... Nightingale
Thank you! I understand where you are coming from now. I should also say that my fathers family also was raised that way, so they too didn't know any better. Also, I was reminded of something that most people don't think of, and that is all of Adam and Eves children grew up and married each other. The only relationships that God forbade was parent and child, mankind is the one who made familial ties into something bad/immoral. I was a lucky one because my mom and my now husband were there for me and helped me and my siblings heal (the ones from her first marriage). P.S. I know not everyone believes in God so I am not preaching here, just wanted to give some food for thought to those who claim to be TRUE CHRISTIANS and get all judgemental. Just saying...
I really hated that about this book. It's weird to do such things. But that's them. Not us. And it's just a manga. That someone worked hard to make. I liked some of her other ones much better.
The idea that love is not something you can force and it should never be suffocating, is both beautiful and true. I'd have enjoyed an extra where Izumi was flourishing in the love that the seme showed him. The mother's love, the aunt's love, even the four eyes' love, were all dark, twisted and possessive to the point of suffocation. These are people who are not in love with the other person, but rather in love with the power they feel from manipulating the hearts of others. They don't fear losing the other person as much as they fear the loss of control over them. All humans feel possessiveness, greed and jealousy because they are emotions tied to our survival instincts. We will always want our lover to only hold us dear or be the only one in our lover's heart and eyes. However, truly loving someone means we also desire to see them grow, succeed and flourish in the world. If there is no balance between fulfilling our desires to possess them and fulfilling our desire to see them grow and flourish, then the love we feel is a selfish love and selfish love is unhealthy. Of all the characters, I think only the uncle was purest in his familial love for Izumi. Unfortunately, Izumi was following the example of his mother and aunt and forcing his own love onto his uncle. I think Izumi recognized this, and wanted to stop. The aunt was a bit of a bitch, but at least she woke up to how wrong her behaviour was and let Izumi go. Izumi's relationship with the four eyes was unhealthy from the start. Four eyes wanted a puppet to control, not a lover.
I love deep manga like this. They give the reader something to contemplate and that is a nice change of pace at times.
Before I read this. I had the impression I liked this since way back. I honestly forgotten what the story is about. I'm currently re-reading mangas I read years ago and one thing I can say for sure is that even though you forgotten the full story, you really can't forget the feelings it made you have before ("I-know-this-was-good" feeling when starting re-reading a manga). #justsaying
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For myself and read all(or most of) this author’s works and check if this seme is actually the best one of all the others. (≧∀≦)
You know, when the world is just beginning and the number of people is still so very few, I bet they were also fucking their mothers, their fathers, siblings and whatnot. I'm not saying there's nothing wrong with incest, Maybe there is, maybe there isn't.
Is izumi like the new brad pitt because he sure is popular for his poker face
What kind of fucked up shit is that
And how is seme not shocked about siblings/relatives fucking each other
Coming from such a family myself (father's side) When you grow up as this is the norm, it does not feel strange. I had a horrible time trying to become normal afterwards, and telling my then boyfriend (now husband of 43 years) was one of the hardest things I ever did, but I knew we couldn't go forward if I didn't reveal my past. I expected him to be filled with disgust and revulsion but I instead received acceptance and love. I was a child who had no control over my life, he said, and he told me that he would fill up the darkness with his love. And he did. If anyone ever breaks down and tells you that they had been molested, etc...just give them unconditional love and support. That is the most important thing we need to heal. Sorry, I got a little carried away there, but I felt you should know that there are people out there with genuine hearts who don't judge us for things we couldn't help. I hope this helps you and others to understand. Thank you.
I'm not really judging.. I just detest the people who do this to their relatives(or to anyone without their consent) just because how they can't control their urges/desires And make traumatic memories for innocent people(like they did to you/character in the manga) It's just making me so damn furious.This is so wrong and I want you to understand that I'm not judging the victims..I'd be supportive if something like this were to happen to someone.I'm sorry for the things you lived through..I'm glad you found someone who accepts you with your everything.
Thank you! I understand where you are coming from now. I should also say that my fathers family also was raised that way, so they too didn't know any better. Also, I was reminded of something that most people don't think of, and that is all of Adam and Eves children grew up and married each other. The only relationships that God forbade was parent and child, mankind is the one who made familial ties into something bad/immoral. I was a lucky one because my mom and my now husband were there for me and helped me and my siblings heal (the ones from her first marriage). P.S. I know not everyone believes in God so I am not preaching here, just wanted to give some food for thought to those who claim to be TRUE CHRISTIANS and get all judgemental. Just saying...
I really hated that about this book. It's weird to do such things. But that's them. Not us. And it's just a manga. That someone worked hard to make. I liked some of her other ones much better.
don't know wht to say all these love thing happen soo fast in last chapter ..but yah its good one.
The idea that love is not something you can force and it should never be suffocating, is both beautiful and true. I'd have enjoyed an extra where Izumi was flourishing in the love that the seme showed him. The mother's love, the aunt's love, even the four eyes' love, were all dark, twisted and possessive to the point of suffocation. These are people who are not in love with the other person, but rather in love with the power they feel from manipulating the hearts of others. They don't fear losing the other person as much as they fear the loss of control over them. All humans feel possessiveness, greed and jealousy because they are emotions tied to our survival instincts. We will always want our lover to only hold us dear or be the only one in our lover's heart and eyes. However, truly loving someone means we also desire to see them grow, succeed and flourish in the world. If there is no balance between fulfilling our desires to possess them and fulfilling our desire to see them grow and flourish, then the love we feel is a selfish love and selfish love is unhealthy. Of all the characters, I think only the uncle was purest in his familial love for Izumi. Unfortunately, Izumi was following the example of his mother and aunt and forcing his own love onto his uncle. I think Izumi recognized this, and wanted to stop. The aunt was a bit of a bitch, but at least she woke up to how wrong her behaviour was and let Izumi go. Izumi's relationship with the four eyes was unhealthy from the start. Four eyes wanted a puppet to control, not a lover.
I love deep manga like this. They give the reader something to contemplate and that is a nice change of pace at times.
wow. Just... wow.
I'm glad Fujishima opened up his world again.
That is one messed up family Izumi has.
Mooooore
Before I read this. I had the impression I liked this since way back. I honestly forgotten what the story is about. I'm currently re-reading mangas I read years ago and one thing I can say for sure is that even though you forgotten the full story, you really can't forget the feelings it made you have before ("I-know-this-was-good" feeling when starting re-reading a manga). #justsaying
This is Sacred.
We shall not taint this relationship.
We shall not taint this Manga.
We shall not taint it.