I think this is a really good question!!
I still haven't found myself, but as I've struggled with life I have noticed that trying your best to accept parts of yourself that you're ashamed of can really help give a clearer sense of self-identity.
For a long time, I never really understood myself. My public personality was often a reflection of trait...... reply
It took a while. A lot of it had to do with confidence and self-image.
The process was that I would periodically feel truly inspired by something (people, film, conversations..) and imagine it being a part of my life. I would think about what kind of person I'd be. But whenever I was in these moments, I was never confident. So I'd throw myself ou...... 1 reply
so quarantine helped. umm got in terms with being bi. figured out i am wat you guys would call trashy, I cant understand people's emotions, can barely even feel my emotions. I just do whatever's interesting. figured out I'm not depressed just a little messed up in the head. But a friend really helped. she on the other hand is depressed but it helpe...... reply
I'm not sure if I should say this because it might seem patronizing but it's clear as day to me why your sibling feels the way they do. Obviously there's disagreement in the value you guys allocate to education. While I absolutely 100% firmly agree that everybody should try their best and FINISH highschool, being a model student with high grades......... 3 reply
I had a time where I really thought that the best future for everyone in my life was one that was without me. I had a lot of self esteem issues and I couldn’t admit to my family that I was borderline harming myself on purpose. I had no self love for myself and everything and everyone felt disgusting. But that all changed when I fessed up to my ch...... 1 reply